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Returning to work make me sick a little bit too...

Aww hun. Hope you feel better soon. But in the mean time that means you have three weeks to unwind and recharge the old batteries huh? Or more time to roam 3DX and leave a trail of spent and sated lovers behind. Up to you to decide. Just make the most of it luv.

Well, it finally happened. I got burned out from work and now I'm on sick leave for the next three weeks. I suck.

You can only be in so many places at once, Derai, and only divide your attention between a finite number of people at a time. I've experienced what you're describing, and yeah it's never fun to feel like you're neglecting someone in favor of someone else, but at the end of it all that's the choice we have to make. You shouldn't feel guilty about it. I try to mitigate this somewhat by scheduling "dates" with my friends, so that I keep in touch with them. It sounds rigid when put like that, but it's more like "hey, can we hang out tomorrow?" and not "I have a time slot between 8 and 9 PM where I can fit you in." Only thing I don't really do is try and invite friends to meet each other. I just get the feeling that some of my different friends wouldn't play well together, so I don't extend invites. I will usually accept an invite though, unless I'm occupied.

Sometimes it is hard to be friends with someone who is introverted. Recently during my wandering in 3DX got a PM from a person I had hooked up with months before. Just a quick encounter back then, and I just moved on. Seems that person didn’t forget about that and poked me when they saw me again. We hung out a bit and friended each other. All pretty straight forward so far. However the wrinkles appear when I was hanging out somewhere and bunch of my friends showed up, surrounding me and letting me bask and indulge myself with dancing for them and having all eyes and attention on me. Feeding my narcissistic tendencies and letting me entertain them. My ‘new’ friend asking me what I was doing via PM and me inviting them over, only for them to practically shut down because they can’t handle groups. The true issue revealing itself in the days after when they log on each day. And ask if I’m doing something, and sounding low key disappointed when I say I’m with people or in a friend’s party room. Bluntly speaking, at times I feel like a bad person for not spending time with them. But on the other hand, I don’t owe them anything. If I hang out with this person one on one, my other friends could be justified in missing me. Right? Or am I as always, overthinking things? Anyway. Just a thought. Stay safe out there!

Sorry to hear you are sick. Get well soon. 3 weeks paid sick leave? Do you get paid vacation days also? This is amazing. You have a great country and system. *westt shakes his head at his country and system*

Vous allez peut être trouver cela nulle comme idée, mais cela serait bien qu'il y ait un maillot de bain une pièce pour femme. Un peu comme ceux des Lifeguards de Baywatch On pourrait choisir la couleur, donc il pourrait être de couleur unie, ou bien avec motifs ___________________________________ You may think this is a lousy idea, but it would be nice if there was a one-piece swimsuit for women. A bit like the Lifeguards from Baywatch We could choose the color, so it could be solid color, or with patterns It could be like this : baywatch 1rst generation Or like this : baywatch new generation

That's a bad thing? But seriously, take good care of yourself Nek. Work needs you and we need you!

You make some good points Nek, thanks. I do the exact opposite as you in regards to inviting my friends to meet friends though. I kind of don’t want to have friends that dislike each other. My view on that is that if one of my friends has viewpoints or habits that upset other friends of mine. Either the habits and viewpoints are to extreme. Or the upset one is just narrow minded. In either case it would make Me reevaluate the friendship. I must add that this only applies in very rare situations and often involves the more divisive aspects of life. Eg political views and the like.

Пока наши Випы отдыхают,напоминаю-> Нам глубоко фиолетово на всех пиздаболов-мечтателей Только прагматики и реалисты ,уверенно идущие по жизни могут претендовать на место в группе . Девочки всегда рулят

Today a friend inspired me this old song .... Have a great day all!

What you are describing is the “obsessive approach”, that can happened us , even without noting we are being abusive/intrusive. I suspect at least once I did that behavior or similar . One reason for that, could be that person has a “strong lonely problem”. How to handle it? I have not a solution since I even could not solve my own yet . I suspect, that to try solving this through this virtual environment is foolish, because after turning off our computer, the song remains the same...