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#21 Xandisweet

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Posted 24 January 2019 - 08:35 PM

I'm gonna make this perfectly clear, I am not him, nor is he me. Neither is Tox or Mar. His alts have nothing to do with us. And have not made an appearance during his response to the hate posts. You sit there talking on and on about how he shouldnt do this or that and yet YOU continuously do the same things. You aren't surprised he responded to what was written because YOU were part of the provocation. Take accountability for your own actions for once instead of pointing the finger at other people when you push someone too far. He and everyone knows what he does, it's that self awareness thing that keeps circling around... the problem here is the inability to think for oneself, if something that someone does offends you or puts you in a place where you feel threatened and there is an option to BLOCK that from your view then that puts a question on whether or not you enjoy what you've spent hours, days even complaining about. This insanity keeps happening over and over because people like to poke and prod when life gets tough making others feel like they have to defend themselves. Enough is enough. If yall continue to bait then it will continue to be responded to.
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Posted 24 January 2019 - 08:46 PM

Go ahead and twist what I said as always. I mean only what I said, not your interpretation of it and not some deluded presumption of an attack or defending of one person because several times our names have been in question for the sake of a rise, happy now? I bet not.

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Posted 24 January 2019 - 09:24 PM

The tables turn and you do not like it. I have explain Why I think how I do about his alts. I think that explain is clear. There is no justification for supporting gender shaming, bullying, minority bashing or any of the other things.

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Posted 24 January 2019 - 10:12 PM

The tables turn and you do not like it. I have explain Why I think how I do about his alts. I think that explain is clear. There is no justification for supporting gender shaming, bullying, minority bashing or any of the other things.


What I support has not been stated, what i do not support has been clearly stated, but ignorance triumphs in this case since you fail to see the difference between support and standing up against bullies. You use that term like a cloak to hide the wrong that you are doing. It is no longer masked harrassment it has come to the point that what you're doing has been brought to light and you can't take a step back to assess the situation, you create your own truths instead of listening. Therefore escalating a situation that could easily be stopped if you look at your own behavior and realize that it is the cause on several occasions, which in turn is why your previous accounts have been permabanned and his has not.

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Posted 24 January 2019 - 10:22 PM

The tables turn and you do not like it. I have explain Why I think how I do about his alts. I think that explain is clear. There is no justification for supporting gender shaming, bullying, minority bashing or any of the other things.

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Posted 25 January 2019 - 12:07 PM

For the record,
I’ve spoken with Rob, Xandi and Mar inidividually throughout my time in 3dx so I can assure they are in no way the same person.

If you keep poking the bunny, you’re gonna get bitten. It’s that simple.

That’s it from me on this. This will go on until the end of days and my life, my time and my energy is too precious.

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Posted 25 January 2019 - 12:46 PM

I have said before that I value your opinion, Mikey. It is not possible to prove one way or another. I do not understand why Mar, Xandi and Tox support, even like, telling lies about someone many times. Why they support gender and minority shaming and personal attacks.

It has been shown before that I am not Ciera. I made a post when she was not able to. I have strong evidence that RobT is Simon_M. It is a screen grab of a PM sent to me. The original PM was deleted, not by me. I do not want to make it public because of what he says about one of his supporters. That would create shitstorm. I think he remembers the PM. I think he will realise that if I have copy other people will too.

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Posted 25 January 2019 - 01:53 PM

Ouch! I think that one touched a nerve. Just like I said in my OP, the same old, same old goes on. Perhaps I'll go back to rl and come back in another three months, maybe something will have changed. /me ducks as a squadron of flying pigs (some wearing lipstick) go past.



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Posted 25 January 2019 - 01:57 PM

I really would like to see this PM :)



#30 Xandisweet

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Posted 25 January 2019 - 02:01 PM

I have said before that I value your opinion, Mikey. It is not possible to prove one way or another. I do not understand why Mar, Xandi and Tox support, even like, telling lies about someone many times. Why they support gender and minority shaming and personal attacks.

It has been shown before that I am not Ciera. I made a post when she was not able to. I have strong evidence that RobT is Simon_M. It is a screen grab of a PM sent to me. The original PM was deleted, not by me. I do not want to make it public because of what he says about one of his supporters. That would create shitstorm. I think he remembers the PM. I think he will realise that if I have copy other people will too.


Quit saying I support shaming of any kind, asshat.
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Posted 25 January 2019 - 02:19 PM

although let me give you a hint, gizmo isnt jimmy lol

 

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Not this PM



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Posted 25 January 2019 - 02:38 PM

regardless, nothing ive said in any pm ive not said to them. have i got into it with mar, yep, have i talked shit to daisy yup, have i went at it with tox, yep. as i started before, i never say anything in pm i wouldnt say to them and have. as a matter of fact ive talked worse to xandi and tox then i have anyone in forums but nice try but try again ;). hell they blocked me a few times i was so bad

simple fact of the matter is, they love me no matter what, you could post every pm ive ever sent. that fact wont change. ;) sorry to take away your perceived power trip but just like j and the many personas of simon , you arent capable of outsmarting me, you dont have the brain matter for it. tata for now


When we took up trying to be your friend we knew who you are and what you do and probably to some degree knew we would end up fighting with you at some point lol but (sorry this is about to get sentimental) friendship is about looking past what some call flaws and sticking it out. I like Rob because of his honesty and no bullshit attitude. He doesnt pretend to be someone hes not. Which is kinda funny and ironic.. and boy do I love irony.
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Posted 25 January 2019 - 02:45 PM

you arent capable of outsmarting me, you dont have the brain matter for it

 

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#34 Xandisweet

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Posted 25 January 2019 - 02:45 PM



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Posted 25 January 2019 - 03:02 PM

I'm always asked why I'm friends with Rob and this is what I tell them. Yes he and everyone has crappy moments. I know I'm not perfect sweet sunshine all the time. So I understand shit happens attitudes happen. So once we get it out of our system we come back to being friends bc we know how to move on. Now yes I'm a stubborn bish at times so it takes me a while but I always come back around. Also I will never ever forget how Rob has always been there for me. Helped me in the shittiest time for me. I also Love his honesty even tho I may not like hearing it I love it. I love that he isn't a fake friend. He is honest and tells you how it is and that is admirable. I cherish that very much.  Sorry I joined the sentimental train. 


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Posted 25 January 2019 - 03:06 PM

Wow, two people like his honesty? hmmmmmm thinks very carefully ....................... therefore Twiggy really must be Billy, Chloe really must be a man and me ....................... OMG I've lost count of the number of people I'm supposed to be.

 

Just saying.

 

Seriously though aren't we supposed to be discussing behaviour, like tellling lies about people isn't clever behaviour, neither is trying to make out they're a different gender to the one they are. Also constantly saying, inplying, that a person doesn't like physical contact when they quite clearly do (it just depends on who it is which is kinda normal). This stuff is not exactly a good way to gain respect or affection.

 

I'll leave you to your mutual congratulatory love fest (It makes me think of something somebody said about some people who've posted here, was it somethign to do with circle time?). Personally I'd get pretty bored if my friends agreed with me all the time.



#37 Xandisweet

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Posted 25 January 2019 - 03:10 PM

Wow, two people like his honesty? hmmmmmm thinks very carefully ....................... therefore Twiggy really must be Billy, Chloe really must be a man and me ....................... OMG I've lost count of the number of people I'm supposed to be.

Just saying.


Well, Rob knows who we are, I'm gonna assume all on a pretty personal level. Real meshes well with real.
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Posted 25 January 2019 - 03:17 PM

Reported, also KnobheadT is now on the iggie list.



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Posted 25 January 2019 - 04:00 PM

Yes he honestly tells you what he thinks. I'm sorry you don't like what he thinks of you and others. Now me on the other hand already stated that you all do sound like some ppl I know that have an illness with making alt after alt trying to be all kinds of ppl why idk. So yeah it has me cautious about you all def with the way you constantly bring up Rob. And yes I live by the rule that all girls in game and in here are men till confirmed otherwise. Sorry you don't like my view on that but I've gotten that way from seeing guy friends of mine get hurt and used by men pretending to be woman over and over again. I also have had exs of mine where I found out there were fucking around on a girl avi. So that is why I think the way I do so yeah I agree with a lot of what Rob says and if he says you are so and so I'll take his word for it bc I know him and don't know you. If I knew you then I would tell him no its not true but I can't bc again I don't know you all. Anywho I'm done explaining myself. Have a lovely day.  


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Posted 25 January 2019 - 05:27 PM

I have said before that I value your opinion, Mikey. It is not possible to prove one way or another. I do not understand why Mar, Xandi and Tox support, even like, telling lies about someone many times. Why they support gender and minority shaming and personal attacks.

It has been shown before that I am not Ciera. I made a post when she was not able to. I have strong evidence that RobT is Simon_M. It is a screen grab of a PM sent to me. The original PM was deleted, not by me. I do not want to make it public because of what he says about one of his supporters. That would create shitstorm. I think he remembers the PM. I think he will realise that if I have copy other people will too.

Let me be clear, you're assuming we support that yet do the very same thing yourself.  I've been called a man even though my picture clearly shows I have boobs and even proved in game, I've been on video chat with a couple of people and even voice as I DJ and voice calls.  Yet that's okay, right?  I've said that words come back to bite us and they do.  We don't always truly know people we speak to and the things they may or may not like which in turn gives them a sick to the stomach feeling that they don't agree with so honestly becomes the best policy.  I can assure you that RobT is not Simon_M as they PM'd me with something Rob knows nothing about.  If you have the screenshot of it then send to that supporter and prove it to be RobT.

 

Ouch! I think that one touched a nerve. Just like I said in my OP, the same old, same old goes on. Perhaps I'll go back to rl and come back in another three months, maybe something will have changed. /me ducks as a squadron of flying pigs (some wearing lipstick) go past.

Remember your words come back to bite you just as they do anyone.

 

regardless, nothing ive said in any pm ive not said to them. have i got into it with mar, yep, have i talked shit to daisy yup, have i went at it with tox, yep. as i started before, i never say anything in pm i wouldnt say to them and have. as a matter of fact ive talked worse to xandi and tox then i have anyone in forums but nice try but try again ;). hell they blocked me a few times i was so bad

 

simple fact of the matter is, they love me no matter what, you could post every pm ive ever sent. that fact wont change. ;)   sorry to take away your perceived power trip but just like j and the many personas of simon , you arent capable of outsmarting me, you dont have the brain matter for it.  tata for now

I agree, Rob and I have had our rounds, even on the forum.  I've blocked him and told him what he could do, when he says something that breaks the rules, I tell him as I do anyone.  I will say this, he's one of the most frank people I've met on here and there are a few.  He gives his opinion on matters and yes he gets attacked for it just like anyone else because it differs that's when the slinging match starts. 

 

Wow, two people like his honesty? hmmmmmm thinks very carefully ....................... therefore Twiggy really must be Billy, Chloe really must be a man and me ....................... OMG I've lost count of the number of people I'm supposed to be.

 

Just saying.

 

Seriously though aren't we supposed to be discussing behaviour, like tellling lies about people isn't clever behaviour, neither is trying to make out they're a different gender to the one they are. Also constantly saying, inplying, that a person doesn't like physical contact when they quite clearly do (it just depends on who it is which is kinda normal). This stuff is not exactly a good way to gain respect or affection.

 

I'll leave you to your mutual congratulatory love fest (It makes me think of something somebody said about some people who've posted here, was it somethign to do with circle time?). Personally I'd get pretty bored if my friends agreed with me all the time.

There is a difference in what you're taking as honesty that is liked and what isn't.  A reminder as I've said before, your words are coming back to bite you.  There is a difference between discussing behavior and masking harassment of user(s) and that's a very big difference.  When crossing that line you are no better than the person you're supposed to be discussing.  Yet, here you are doing it once again with masked harassment of a user.  I don't agree with Rob all the time, no one agrees with each other all the time, that's the point of having an opinion.

Here is an example of a discussion:
Good Discussion:

User A:  I don't like the way the forums don't seem to be moderated as you look through you see things that clearly break the rules.

User B:  I agree, there should be something done to make the forum more friendly and inviting to the new users or potential new users.
User A:  Sometimes it seems to get out of hand and needs to have something done.

User B:  I'm sure once the reports are read they'll do what needs to be done.

Bad Discussion:

User A:  I don't like that certain people get away with things.

User B:  You would think the moderators would take more action against those certain users.

User A:  Doesn't seem to matter those certain users are going to do it anyway.

User B:  Those certain users are going to do it no matter what, the moderators don't seem to do much against them anyway.

 

 

Reported, also KnobheadT is now on the iggie list.

No better than the very people you're complaining about when insulting them, only difference it seems is they don't complain about it under masked harassment.




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