My first language is sarcasm, if it's not sarcastic then it's typically about tacos, or I've made a valid point. If you choose to disagree I do not wish to change your opinion. But that doesnt mean that when you're straight up mean or malicious I'm gonna change mine either. Agreeing to disagree means i do what i want and you do what you want, no?
Actually no, “agree to disagree” doesn’t mean do what you want.
"Agree to disagree" or "agreeing to disagree" is a phrase in English referring to the resolution of a conflict (usually a debate or quarrel) whereby all parties tolerate but do not accept the opposing position(s). It generally occurs when all sides recognise that further conflict would be unnecessary, ineffective or otherwise undesirable. They may also remain on amicable terms while continuing to disagree about the unresolved issues.
Sarcasm is highly context dependent and often it’s all in the tone, which is usually lost here. So it’s a fine art. For example my sarcasm often comes across as being a negative, bitter, cynical, bitchy person. I accept that.