More of my pointless thoughts

[CaptainDerek969]

You ever wish that you never found 3dx? Maybe it was not what ya thought or you had way more drama than ya wish? I have been around this place for over 3 and a half years now and part of me wishes I never found it. I have certainly had my good times but the bad has outweighed the good by miles. I have made some great friends and I have met people I wish I never did. But I still choose to move forward knowing I should just leave this place and forget everything as best as I can. It is an odd feeling to know that you have no reason to stick around anymore but been around so long your entire being tells you to stick around and maybe things will get better. Just curious on what some of yall think. Just been really trapped in my head thinking lately of what I should do. 

[Tlaera]

Life is way too short to subject yourself to a place where the bad outweighs the good.  And money is too tight to pay for it. 

 

There are thousands of alternate hobbies to try.  Take up hiking.  Take up biking.  Learn to play an instrument.  Learn to paint.  Take cooking classes.  Go on food tours.  Do all of the touristy things available in the nearest city that you've never done because you live near there, so you've never gotten around to it.  The list goes on and on.

 

Find a hobby where the good outweighs the bad, and do that instead.  That's a much better path to happiness than the one you seem to be on now.

 

Tlaera

[CaptainDerek969]

That is really helpful thanks, this place became a much bigger part of my life than I ever thought but it just seems to be more pain than good as of late.

[Bridget_Cleary]

OMG! There's loads of really nice people in 3dxChat .............................. we need more, not fewer, of them.

[CaptainDerek969]

OMG! There's loads of really nice people in 3dxChat .............................. we need more, not fewer, of them.

Ask around, I am sure many people will tell you I am not nice

[CaptainDerek969]

I really appreciate it rockster. Just been a lot going on lately that had made 3dx no fun which sucks because I love spending time on 3dx chatting and chillng with friends

[Castiel]

Do I wish I never found 3DX? Hell naw. I love that I found it because I'm walking away from it with so much more than I had before I did. Everyone's had their ups-and-downs on 3DX and elsewhere. It's part of life. I see most of what goes on in that place as a game for most or a way to socialize with other, sometimes, like-minded people or people of vastly different backgrounds. But you can do that almost anywhere. Being the exception to the rule and having found an amazing, real relationship there doesn't preclude me from pointing out that I really don't think it's the place to find such things. Too many people hiding behind avi's playing games and being sneaky. Plus, like, almost all the females are dudes.

As far as you go, it all depends on what you get out of, or want to get out of, this place. If, as you said, it's spending time chatting and chilling with friends, then let that be your focus and do that when you get the itch to jump on and hang out. Don't let the bad ruin the good and do what is best for you.