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TamsinUK

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I came to England about five years ago because it was not safe for me to stay in my country. I had lost my husband a few months before. Most of my friends were already gone.


 


I was lucky, I had enough money to start a business. My business was used by people who had also left my country so I became involved in working with refugees. I had a good life but nobody to share it with. It was very rewarding working with people who had fled wars, but tiring too. Women who came to England with nothing were making lives for themselves. I joined the game to relax and not to be lonely any more.


 


I had some good experiences in this game. I met some very nice people. But it didn't change my loneliness. I left and joined again a short while later. I had an experience which I was not happy about and left again.


 


I am writing this now because I am thinking about why I want to join the game again. I am thinking about what I want from the game before I do. I tell my story to invite other people to do the same. I think everybody has a story to tell that is worth reading. It could be about why you joined. It could be something funny, or interesting, that has happened in the game. It doesn't have to be related to the game at all, just a nice story about something that means something to you.


 


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I always wanted to be a soldier, I lived in a country that a civil war. I joined the military for 4 years, got into a wreck 2 years in injured my neck and back. I extended 3 more years, kept pushing myself but the injury was making it harder to just do normal things. I got extended 10 more months,and got out, had to. Woke up one day with my legs just not working, took about 1/2 an hour them to move. It was the stress. I gave body time to heal hoping to return to the military, had enough college education to meet the next two rank promotions. 2015 i started working out like a mad man, determined to return in the military by 2016's summer. At work i had an accident, ladder I was on broke, 12 foot drop onto my back. Spent the begin of 2016 here staying sane, while in RL i was told it was over, I was too injured to return to military. Right now i am pushing myself to get into shape, the injuries keep popping up, but fuck it, ain't gonna stay down. As for in the game I build to relax my mind, talk and fuck around to keep myself from feeling depressed. As for RL, lifting weights then putting ice on mainly my neck real nerve damage. We get one life, when shit happens we either stay down or keep going. RL, I don't like staying down..

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Thank you RobPathfinder. That was very honest of you. I respect that. Not all stories have to be serious. I hope some other people will share a story that says something about them. It needn't reveal anything about the person's real life.

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Hello, I'm Allison (Ali for short) and I am a Lesbian. And I won the lottery..

 

No, not the money lottery. But I feel that lucky to have found that one person you were meant to finally, and I want to shout it to the world. I have been though many girls and relationships and always knew they were "not quite right" , lived with a few in my short life (I'm 20 something). But to actually find the one woman in all the world right in my own backyard.

 

You know her as JustSomeGirl (JSG) and a few other names I am not allowed to state. I don't play or participate in the 3DX game, I have no reason to. As far as I know neither does JSG anymore. She (JSG) got me into this forum because it is supposed to be for adults and has a large lesbian population. I'm not really an on-line game player but JSG is and I wanted to participate in things she likes. Although I know she doesn't like me sharing things about my/our life but she wants to make me happy, and I just have to shout life-changing moments to the world...

 

I have had many, many, people tell me to 'be careful' and telling me things could fall apart. As has JSG. When we met it pretty much totally scared the fucking shit out of both of us. Almost to the point JSG was very reluctant to even continue. I never believed in "Love at first site", I was convinced that it did not exist in the world.

 

I don't know if anyone here has ever felt this it was just so totally freaky. We met in a Lesbian Pub, the old cliche of "Seen from across a crowded room" , I spotted this girl with long blonde hair and a fantastic body and could not take my eyes off her. I actually tried to avoid her most the night, but it got to hard. So I took the plunge. There were about 10 girls trying to get her attention, and the minute our eyes met it was electric. She ignored all the other girls and dragged me on to the dance floor. ME! she could have any other girl in the place and she chose me. I couldn't believe it. Looking into her eyes I knew she was the one..It felt so right. She looked like a deer caught in headlights and I knew she felt the same way. You would think we would be in bed together right away that night. But we held off and did the proper thing a lot of couples do in this country, we exchanged medical certificates stating we were both free of any kind of STD, AIDS or other disease.

 

Our second date, we went to a really nice dinner on a boat in the harbour...and she actually told me that I scared the shit out of her (great thing on a date aye?) She has always guarded herself and swore she would NEVER fall in love or get to attached to anyone ever. (I assumed bad breakup, I was right) Our first kiss she melted, the walls came tumbling down and I have been in total bliss ever since.

 

We had an invitation from a filthy rich friend of mine to go out on a weekend cruise on her yacht, (probably because of all my gushing about this new girl I met) our own cabin for 3 days. We both loved the water/ocean and we were also told it would be a lesbian cruise with 3 other couples and even the boat staff (including the captain) were also all female. 

 

After a weekend of the best mind blowing sex I have ever had, when we got home we were laying in bed at her place watching a DVD (Drew Barrymore in the romantic comedy "Never been kissed".) And I just blurted it out.

3 little words that would change my life. (and not "I Love You") it was "Please Marry me"..

 

My heart must have stopped, did I just say that? And it started again, when I heard "Fuck Yes..My Goddess"

 

All this happened over just 3 weeks I think. We have been together every moment we can since then, still going strong and not a sign of letting up. Some couples find little annoyances about each other, we still haven't found one yet. We also made sure their would be total honesty if we found any.

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--- As of 8 July 2018 we have now been married for 9 months..

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My first experience with RP in a virtual world was back in 1995 in the Compuserve chat rooms. A lot of people who play 3DXChat these days probably have no idea what Compuserve was, so yeah, I am a dinosaur in more ways than one.

 

The first 3D virtual world I joined was IMVU from 2007 to 2010, but I quit for a number of reasons, many of which had nothing to do with IMVU itself. I started looking for another virtual world to join in 2013 and briefly tried Red Light Center before joining 3DXChat in November of that year.

 

Although experimenting with my sexuality was my main objective at the time, I definitely joined for both the sexual and the social aspects of the game. And the social part of the game is why I am still here five years later.

 

For reasons of my own, I am much more comfortable interacting virtually with people rather than meeting face-to-face, so it’s quite likely that I will do most of my socializing this way from now on. It can be a little lonely at times, since no matter how close you feel to someone emotionally, there is always a huge physical gap. And I think some of the craziness in my own behavior is rooted in that gap. But at this point in my life, I definitely would rather make friends with like-minded people here than people with whom I have little in common other than location.

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