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I didnt want to create a new topic just for what i need to say. It is not exactly the same as what shanti first initially posted but falls under the category of think twice before you post anything.

 

BE VERY CAREFUL of what you post in the way of selfies, personal pics, nudies ect... I know some of you state that you do not care however you are leaving yourself wide open to Internet stalkers, creeps, people that have nothing better to do with their lives that want to ruin others, ect. These days thanks to google images and others it is very easy to find the location of a photo if it has been uploaded on the interwebs. Leading to more personal information if it is available.

 

ok my second thing. POSTING PICS (mostly nudies) that DO NOT belong to you that you claim to be yours!!!! Do you realize how bad this is???? You could really ruin some poor girls life family and or career. Yes im talking to those that do it... Not to mention how stupid you make yourself look. Because sadly there are ppl out there like myself that have nothing better to do and sit here in their pajamas eating icecream, scaning pics to google. 

 

So in conclusion....

 

THINK BEFORE YOU POST ANYTHING!!

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I will never understand why we get about all here a big discuss ^^


I thought this game is there that all have fun and forget the stress about the real life...


When someone post a picture and I don't like it, I need it not view this!


Or when someone post things and  I don't like it where is the problem talk adult like about this?


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Think twice before posting someone's death on this forum.

 

Too many people fake death and/or serious illness as an excuse to either leave the game or restart with a new avatar. 

They are bored with who they are or with who they are hanging with, so need a big exit story to go out in the spot lights and be pitied !

 

If you want to leave, just bloody leave or say you need a break, own up to your decision and go for it. If you find delight about doing an act like this, you need serious help.

 

It's unfair to all the people who care about you in this community or those who might actually be in such real situations !

 

Freaking disgusting ! For those who do that, you can be ashamed of yourselves, but you probably don't care anyway.

 

 

I'm not replying to any death announcements ever.

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With any communication and conversation, I would hope but know it doesn't always happen, for folks to be respectful and true.  Any chat forum, especially gives people anonymity and opportunity to flame,  be unauthentic with little or no consequence.

 

Lets use what we have to help each other and the community if you want....but with any good advice such as in this post...think of yourself as priority for your well being and sanity...first..

 

Protect your sanity and you .....why be buck naked?  Love his gun by the way...

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Think twice before posting someone's death on this forum.

 

Too many people fake death and/or serious illness as an excuse to either leave the game or restart with a new avatar. 

They are bored with who they are or with who they are hanging with, so need a big exit story to go out in the spot lights and be pitied !

 

If you want to leave, just bloody leave or say you need a break, own up to your decision and go for it. If you find delight about doing an act like this, you need serious help.

 

It's unfair to all the people who care about you in this community or those who might actually be in such real situations !

 

Freaking disgusting ! For those who do that, you can be ashamed of yourselves, but you probably don't care anyway.

 

 

I'm not replying to any death announcements ever.

Agreed.. Personally I think it should be against the rules to post about someones 'death' real or not.. This is not the place for it..

 

And it will personally save me a lot of personal anguish deciding whether or not to troll the post.. I have resisted so far :P

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I agree too , but not for just on forum but in game too.... just coz its a sex game should not give people the right to infringe their so called acceptable fantacies in front of other users.. there are rooms for them to go RP to their hearts content. some things I have found offence in, like RAPE rooms and the people fucking on dance-floor  ... i understand we pay for this site but I don't feel all moral code should be tossed aside. We are all here for FUN.. sex too i know .... but cant we do it with out the intent to offend, disgust or shock others.

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The problem wasn't handled and probably still isn't being handled.

 

http://3dxforum.com/index.php?/topic/1425-3dxchat-community-rules/

 

3. Names, Avatars, Images / Video and Signatures.
 
You agree to not include the Following:
 
3.01. That contain profanity, Including its abbreviated form.
3.02. That contain insults, personal attacks, abuse or harassment.
3.03. Which Either in whole or partly contain copyrighted or registered trademark element.
3.04. Which have racist, nationalistic implications or comments Supremacy Which may create offense to A Certain nation, ethnic, religious or racial group.
3.05. Which contain insults or derogatory comments based on race, nationality, religion, culture, mental stature, sex, or sexual preference.
3.06. Which have to association with pedophilia, sexual abuse.
3.07. Which contain personal details / credentials.
3.08. Which contain excessive glorification of violence and / or gore, or are obscene / vulgar.
3.09. Which make reference to addictive or illegal substances or Their use, or any other illegal activities.
3.10. That contain logotypes, symbols, emblems or figures connected in one way or another with Organizations, Which violate or were violating existing laws and rules.
3.11. That are connected with negative historical or political personalities.
3.12. That negatively portrays of the SexGameDevil staff, or administration.
3.13. Which in any other manner Violates the End User License Agreement.
 
If names (player), avatars, signatures, images / video, logos within the forums or within the game violate thesis rules, the offending account may be changed and / or the account may be sanctioned or deleted.

 

 

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I could not disagree more with you, Shanti.

 

You don't have the right to not be offended, and the very fact that you seem to think you deserve that right is - to me - incredibly offensive in and of itself.

 

As soon as we go down the path of censorship we immediately run into the question of who gets to judge "morals" and what is "tasteful" or not. Why should that be you? If your skin is too thin to handle the forums then don't read them - and while you're at it avoid history books, the news, and all serious social discourse. 

 

Obviously there are trolls (and the best way to deal with them is simply not to feed them), but nothing makes you such a special snowflake that you should presume to tell me what I can or cannot write, say or think.

 

As Evelyn Hall said, I do not agree with what you have to say, but I'll defend to the death your right to say it.

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I could not disagree more with you, Shanti.

 
I could not disagree more with u, Sugar Bunny.
 

 

 


If your skin is too thin to handle the forums then don't read them - and while you're at it avoid history books, the news, and all serious social discourse.

 

 

but nothing makes you such a special snowflake that you should presume to tell me what I can or cannot write, say or think.

 

unless ur not a forum alt, and i guess u wernt even here yat maybe, as this topic was made or why and 4 what in the "first case"? and no matter how supa thick or thin my, or anyones skin in here maybe is or not...and besides that..."it" was/is also in "the rules"...but which "normal" humanbeing even needs any kind of "rules" at all, when it comes up to child porn and well, sry, but I and bet my fatt ass, the majority of the "gamers" here, also didnt n doesnt fancy seeing diaries or phantasies of fukn and or raping children at that time, this "topic was porn aeh, i mean born"^^...atleast and not even, with a freakn whole container full of free vomit bags!!

 

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just my 1500 cents, thinkn, nearly vomiting, typin and sayn

- have a great summer -

 over and finally out
 

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So basically your position, Parachute Chik, is that if "most people" don't want to see something it shouldn't be posted. By that you're effectively saying that what is right and wrong is simply a matter of popularity, and I personally can't imagine a less intellectually weighty argument than that.

 

As for there being rules, well obviously the owners of the site don't feel that the posts that offend you are that bad otherwise they'd have deleted them. If you want to complain to them that's your business, but the "there are rules" argument is really no argument at all. If I made a rule that said we all have to wear green thongs on our heads that wouldn't make it a good rule. Rules can be stupid and unfair just as easily as they can be wise and reasonable.

 

You did present your emotions very well: A GIF file and talking about how some posts make you want to vomit. Unfortunately talking about how something makes you feel is not the same as presenting a rational argument, which takes me back to my thin skinned comment. If you're too delicate for these forums then don't read them, end of story.

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...So basicly member, my position...blah, 4 now ill just stick to the topic blah 'THINK TWICE BEFORE YOU WRITE ANYTHING'  take my personal nice cup of stfu blah and answer with the minimum of whatever only required blah and simply write: nothing^^...all said already above anyway...or do u really think, that i would

 

even bother of thinkn of, where my forumhelmet,

 

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or my bulletproofvest is!?

 

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or even continue this mabye uselesss, but surly "timewastn argrument" with u any further?!!?

 

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nope...actually i have real more and important stuff to do, ma'am...and so, anyway, happy fragging n banging!

 

 

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and just incase and to clarify: evrything concering vomit.exe, was for the few childporn/rape stuff,
we apperently once had till gizmo/lisa deleted them cause we had no mods in the forum at that time!
AND NOT CAUSE OF U
just editing n sayn
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I could not disagree more with you, Shanti.

 

You don't have the right to not be offended, and the very fact that you seem to think you deserve that right is - to me - incredibly offensive in and of itself.

 

As soon as we go down the path of censorship we immediately run into the question of who gets to judge "morals" and what is "tasteful" or not. Why should that be you? If your skin is too thin to handle the forums then don't read them - and while you're at it avoid history books, the news, and all serious social discourse. 

 

Obviously there are trolls (and the best way to deal with them is simply not to feed them), but nothing makes you such a special snowflake that you should presume to tell me what I can or cannot write, say or think.

 

As Evelyn Hall said, I do not agree with what you have to say, but I'll defend to the death your right to say it.

 

I think you misunderstood the posting of shanti :)

 

Her posting was just only a moral step food for thought before write a posting or a topic. There was no word about censorship or that someone some things don't want to read or that shanti want to judge someone. :huh:

 

It was just some line to think about, not more and not less ;)

 

Because first write a topic or posting and after them think about the written words could be too late for someone ^^

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In light of recent topics I feel obligated to mention that every passing morrow we have nearly limitless opportunities to become upset, stressed, or merely offended.  The fact is that when you entertain, pamper, or nourish these negative sentiments, you serve only to empower something outside of yourself with the ultimate control over your own happiness.

 

The only verdict is to not let these minute details dismay or hinder you.

 

The difference between being conscientious and conceited is how much you let your emotions ploy your actions and reactions.

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I could not disagree more with you, Shanti.

 

You don't have the right to not be offended, and the very fact that you seem to think you deserve that right is - to me - incredibly offensive in and of itself.

 

As soon as we go down the path of censorship we immediately run into the question of who gets to judge "morals" and what is "tasteful" or not. Why should that be you? If your skin is too thin to handle the forums then don't read them - and while you're at it avoid history books, the news, and all serious social discourse. 

 

Obviously there are trolls (and the best way to deal with them is simply not to feed them), but nothing makes you such a special snowflake that you should presume to tell me what I can or cannot write, say or think.

 

As Evelyn Hall said, I do not agree with what you have to say, but I'll defend to the death your right to say it.

Seeing as how I remember why this was posted let me clue you in. It had nothing to do with censorship or thin skin. However, there was once a poster who was posting things in relation to incest involving a child. You had no way of knowing until you clicked on it.This caused multiple reports and there were several posts. Child pornography is illegal. This was off of some other rather offensive posts. So, that being said, should the sick and demented be allowed to post their pedophilia on the forum? Seeing as how the post was so old, maybe ask questions first. Your approach is offensive. Why come at her in an offensive and condescending manner?

 

"but nothing makes you such a special snowflake that you should presume to tell me what I can or cannot write, say or think" for example.

 

 

 

You don't have the right to not be offended, and the very fact that you seem to think you deserve that right is - to me - incredibly offensive in and of itself.

 

Are you saying that she doesn't have the right to be offended? Also, she was a moderator of this forum which had moderators for a reason. So she did have a right to moderate which meant removing offensive posts. You can say what you want, fine. However, this is a forum with its own rules that must be followed. I don't know if you are an alt with a new forum account nor do I care. However, if you have been around, I think you should know what she meant. As Achilles mentioned it was food for thought, her opinion which  she has a right to.

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Nowhere did I say that anyone wasn't entitled to their opinion. And nowhere did I say that the moderators didn't have the right to moderate as they saw fit - if they're in charge of a particular board than so be it. And yes, I'm quite aware that pedophilia is illegal. Oddly enough that's common knowledge.

 

But I stand by my statements.

 

I've seen great boards ruined by those who deem it their "moral authority" to police everyone's fantasies and desires. There are plenty of people online with rape fantasies, for example, that would never actually rape anyone in a million years. Same goes for fantasies like abduction, blackmail, student/teacher, boss/secretary etc. They'll all illegal or unethical in real life, but to judge a fantasy in that manner is to completely miss the point. It's a fantasy people, and just because it isn't your cup of tea why should you you be lecturing to others about what they want to roleplay?

 

If someone posts actual illegal material of course that shouldn't just be taken down, but also reported to the authorities. Duh. But from the tone of the posts it seems like someone just posted something which you people got your panties in a twist over but that wasn't actually anything illegal. If its against your rules then delete it and move on, but why should anyone care what you think?

 

Perhaps rather than just spending 100 posts virtue signaling to each other you should actually just mind your own business and stop being so preachy.

 

And, by the way, I love how rather than fashioning arguments you simply lecture some more about how people are supposed to respond to your posts (ie. agree with them like sheep). Real debate doesn't work that way, but I doubt most of you have had to face a real rational argument in your lives.

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1. 'but to judge a fantasy in that manner is to completely miss the point. It's a fantasy people...'

 

2. 'But from the tone of the posts it seems like someone just posted something which you people got your panties in a twist over but that wasn't actually anything illegal.'

 

3. 'you simply lecture some more about how people are supposed to respond to your posts...'

 

4. 'but I doubt most of you have had to face a real rational argument in your lives.'

  1. A bit deplorable to judge fantasy, yes, and while I have no issue allowing people to indulge in their own personal fantasies, forcing it upon others is also pretty buggered, in of itself.
  2. It was illegal, and it was proposed in such a way as to force it upon people that wanted nothing to do with it.
  3. I'm not going to lecture you on how "I want you" to respond.  I appreciate your honesty and by all means, disagree, it gives me insight from another person's aspect.
  4. That's cute.  I know well enough to know that emotion has no place in logical or rational discussion.  It doesn't have to be an argument, it can have a positive vibe.  If you feel the discussion is getting out of hand, step back, take a breath, collect your rationale you seem to be so sophisticated with, and continue.  For any questions, see #3 -- Because if you're asking people to be rational, you shouldn't attack others in the same statement.

Anyway, you seem like the independent, 'freedom of speech' kind of person, and I appreciate that you realize everyone has rights: but everyone has these rights.  It only becomes a problem when one allows their own freedoms to make an attempt to overrule another's.

 

Nevertheless, have a peachy day.

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3. Names, Avatars, Images / Video and Signatures.
 
You agree to not include the Following:
 
...
3.06. Which have to association with pedophilia, sexual abuse.
3.07. Which contain personal details / credentials.
3.08. Which contain excessive glorification of violence and / or gore, or are obscene / vulgar.
...
If names (player), avatars, signatures, images / video, logos within the forums or within the game violate thesis rules, the offending account may be changed and / or the account may be sanctioned or deleted.

 

 

Sugar Bunny, you can follow the rules or essentially be removed. It's as simple as that. You don't like these rules, and feel that it's hindering your freedom of speech in some way? Okay. Go somewhere else where you're allowed to discuss the topics and partake in actions that are NOT ALLOWED HERE (or in MANY parts of the universe!!!!!!!!). These rules are the TERMS OF USE. You DO NOT NEED TO ACCEPT them, but then you CANNOT USE THIS PRODUCT.

 

There's seriously no need for a discussion over whether child porn should be allowed or not (the goddamn answer is obvious!!!!!!!!!!!!!). What SHOULD be questioned is whether or not these rules are being ENFORCED!

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Something tells me Sugar Bunny lost the plot utterly, entirely and in no way had a clue as to Shanti's original post and immediately jumped onto the wrong bandwagon going in the completely wrong direction and went off on a massive tirade that has been seen through, called out and has put said Bunny on the defensive instead of just sticking a hand up and saying "Oh fuck, my bad, I was wrong".

 

However lost you are Bunny in terms of understanding the original reason for the post, the post was intended to point people in the simple direction of thinking before posting due to: Post of Incest / Child Pornography (never ever fucking acceptable ever!!), Personal Attacks, Racial Abuse, and many other things that are NOT and never should be acceptable in any way, shape or form. Nobody asked for or condoned censorship at any stage of the conversation other than disgustingly vile things that deserve to never be shown.

 

Nobody is saying that there should not be discussion on points of argument or opinion, what they are trying to say is argue validly and in a proper fashion instead of flailing about in the dark trying to make a point that has no merit when you missed the reasoning for the post by such a long distance that NASA is observing that point as if it's a new object for Kepler to explore and planning to send a satellite to.

 

Vile, horrid, disgusting things have no place on a forum and should be launched into the sun. I am against censorship completely but I am not against censoring that which has no place in human society (rape, slavery, abuse, racism, molestation, child pornography, etc.) and I still stand with Shanti 200% on her comments.

 

Everybody has picked up that you missed the point, tried to brandish your values in the wrong manner, and are now trying to find a defensible position for it (and failing hopelessly may I add). Rather just give up, admit you fluffed the reasoning for the post and move on. Shanti has been here longer than most and has seen everything that goes on here and doesn't say things lightly or without reason. You will not find much support that carries any weight I'm afraid...

 

Just my 2c as usual. And Rob I'm disappointed you were so nice :P

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