i think people here are missing the point that my original post is not about finding a relationship here....at all.
my point is that 3dx is an extremely addictive place, because it resembles RL so much, and offer you an escape from reality, just like drugs/alcohol would do.
except this place looks far more "innocent".
i did comment on it though.
and when i did, i'm not talking about taking relationships outside of 3dx. i'm talking about relationships inside 3dx.
i didn't marry Amy because i didn't have actual feelings for her.
be it inside or out, the feelings are there.
and that makes it just as "real" as outside of 3dx.
but in the end, i have to refer back to Athene's comment.
so far, that has been the most accurate statement related to the original post.
it doesn't matter what you think about this place, or how you feel about it, or what it "actually is"
what matters is "this is what I feel, and i'm hurt"
this is my pain, you have yours.
spilling drinks on your clothes, crashign your car, losing a loved one, being depressed over 3dx, and so on.
they're all different forms of agony.
in the end,any decent person would simply sit by your side, and support you, no matter what it is you're hurt about.
if you don't....well then i.m.o. you're not human....you're just a cunt.