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Yeah I've made a few party announcement threads in my almost 4 years here, but this is my first real one...

 

1) I got a little bit drunk

2) Things is RL are sorta meh

3) Things in 3dx are whatever

4) Other shit

 

So I log into 3dx and decide to check out the new rooms.  I see a "Grape room".  I go there.  I lose my shit.

 

This is what bothers me.  "It's just a game".  Do people really think like this?  Do people even think at ALL before they speak anymore?  I thought that typing was a poor yet slightly effective filter between what people think and what people broadcast.  

 

This isn't about me.  This is about what this community is and apparently has always been since I can remember.  People who know me know that I tend to find the rape rooms and I tend to be a pain about them.  I don't get any pleasure interacting with the bottom feeders of society, and I'm sure as shit not gonna share my own life stories with the general population of this place, or the real world.

 

Please put yourself into this scenario...  You've recently been to a party.  You had too much to drink.  You possibly had something else that clouded your judgement.  You knew when you took this that it would have this effect on you.  You're lonely.  You're depressed.  Someone shows interest in you.  You think that this person will make you feel better about yourself.  You realize that you've made a mistake.  You want to leave.  You get raped.

 

Is this funny?  Is this a fantasy of yours?  Is this something that you can see someone else taking lightly?  Is this what you expected to find when you decided that the internet was the only place you felt safe anymore?

 

Sadly, you should have expected to see this.  This is apparently the nature of the human race now.  

 

Years go by.  You are able to "cope" with your past now.  You witness people taking things that once dictated the course of your entire life as if they're a joke, or a "game".  You deal.  You remember how it was before you could "cope",  You wonder if there are others that are somewhere in limbo between having their dignity robbed, and "coping" with it.  You decide that something needs to be said.

 

You say something that's probably combative.  You degrade people taking rape lightly.  You become petty.  You feel yourself becoming someone you don't want to be.

 

And then you experience the true human spirit.  "It's just a game"  "It's fantasy"  "If you don't like it, don't come here"

 

You ask yourself if you can pretend that there isn't 50 people in a rape room.  You ask yourself if you see something that's terribly wrong, is it strength or weakness to turn your back to it?  You ask yourself "WHY THE FUCK DO I HAVE TO EVEN ASK MYSELF THIS???"

 

What is wrong with people when there is absolutely no compassion for someone who has been robbed of the very thing that they're expected to save for the one person that they truly love?  

 

I am at a loss...  I've been in SO many battles both here and in the "game" over the complete lack of sympathy for people who have been raped that I don't know what else to do.  I am not a person that can turn her back.  

 

Is there any hope at all for humanity?  Why do people have to be so fucking heartless???  Does anyone at all see what I see?  

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Don’t be sorry. I jus wanna clarify tho. Are you talking about people being at fault for putting themselves in situations in rl or jus 3dx? Or is it the person’s fault in both scenarios?

 

Also, I am sad to have to bring this up, but rape rooms are also against the rules. So even if you do think it’s cool, you can still get banned for it. It would be nice if we didn’t need that rule because people could act like human beings, but ofc, the rule was unfortunately necessary.

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I am only talking about you making the choice of drinking and then coming on 3dxChat and hurt yourself because people in here can fantasize about rape. 

Also, you can't rape anyone on 3dxChat. First, because we are not physically present, second, because you can't force anyone to do anything in game.

From my point of view, it is just you complaining about people doing things you don't want them to do.

 

Edit : You don't have to define who's a human being or not, thanks. Some people have dark fetishes, and they properly obtain satisfaction without anyone getting hurt. Having you claiming they are animals is very "against the rules".

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Thanks Rob. I didn’t take a screenshot. I’m not trying to report people. I’m trying to inspire them to act like human beings. Yes I’m still saying that.

I know what Elenn meant. I was trying to make a point. The whole “she was asking for it” attitude is so disappointing to read/hear.

 

Calling rapists animals is fortunately not against the rules and even if it was, I’m sticking with it.

 

 

 

By the way Rob, youre absolutely right about me wasting my time. I don’t know why I thought I could actually change peoples minds.

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People fantasizing about rape are not rapists actually. And that does not make them animals. You are being offensive acting that way, disminishing people for what they think.

 

No one here ever said that anyone asked for anything, my point is only that you should not drink if you put yourself in situations where you get hurt by others when you do.

You guys are completely off your own topic.

 

I can see where this is going. Before next page, I'll be the one that defends rape I suppose.

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Most of the players are young, and dumb here, they are affected by high use of internet porn materials, they have no real life sexual experience, just weird fantasies because of too much porn consumption, so it's not suprising, that the sexual culture in-game is so low, just like in real life nowdays. However this is a sex game where anyone can be anyone and live out any fantasies, so just don't go in rooms where you don't want to. And be calm, those rapist are mainly young geek boys with erectal disorder sitting in front of a computer :D

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Fine, this is my last post then.

I did not say that I felt offended, this isn't about me. I also think you are the one dodging my arguments since the very beginning trying to put this on an emotional and moral level when, in the end, you just complain about people that can't do to each other what you claim they are doing and just complain about not having the perfect world that would suit you.

I'm fine with that, have a nice day.

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To me it feel condescending saying just because it privately public roleplay it isn't harmful, because between individual it is consensual. Feel to me by that logic we should give all child molesters sex dolls representing children because it would stop them offending, really or would it just enforce or encourage their fantasizes? I mean after all real children aren't harmed right?

 

Simply don't buy that this wont just create situations where lines between fantasy and reality wont get blurred, where some those guys going there wont eventually feel like women subconsciously want. I think this whole false rape fantasy will eventually cause enforced fantasy about it and less self control when girls say no, let me ask you if some claim so heavily in favor of needing these rape rooms. What when there is not anyone around, will those guys going there be able to not act sexually aggressive forward other users outside those rooms or private roleplays?

 

Think accepting notion that is okay in community just create toxic environment here, but that my opinion on the subject. 

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I agree with you Kimmy. I’m not really sure what else there is to say tho. I’ll leave that to everyone else.

 

Riri, I would but you’re way too subby for me. ;)

Well you know :(

I am just normal but then there's you... the animal.  :wub:

 

Seriously just don't bother Jess, i don't know we been here ages love and you know how nothing ever changed here.

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I made a new account to explore some of these World Editor creations and see if it is maybe worth giving 3dx another try. Just an FYI, there is a room open right now called "GRAPE"⋆SLUT⋆ROOM⋆Colds OK and it has over 60 people in it. I really have no stance on either side of the issue, just thought I would throw this tid bit of info into the discussion.

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Yeah there it has reached 71 people, guess this is apparently some harmless joke to some. Find it little stomach turning that they even included stars in title like it some celebrity big event, this honestly makes me reconsider not subscribing for another year if this what the community has come down to.

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That was the room name that’s originally set me off. As stated earlier tho, it’s my own fault for logging in drunk and being offended.

 

I read most of that thread you created Lilly. It seems I’m a little late to the discussion. Thank you for posting it.

 

There is something that I was trying to say originally tho that I think got missed. I know the rape rooms are against the rules. I also know what I’m about to say is Incredibly naive, but my point was people should know better. People shouldn’t have to be policed to not act like human garbage. Again, I know that’s a ridiculous thing to say, but I need to say it.

 

So to the people who think they have the right and freedom to throw rape around like a beach ball, please consider how seeing rape taken lightly makes others feel. I really can’t believe that that’s too much to ask.

 

I’m over my past. I’m not fighting this for myself.

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Are we really sure it's against the rules? On these forums it says it is, but on the game's Web site rules it says nothing about it. I know some members have chimed in and tried to clarify but they do not make the rules, nor do they enforce them. Perhaps our fearless leaders at 3DX can clarify the issue?

 

Or maybe, just MAYBE enforce these rules?????

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