JessicaX Posted October 7, 2017 Share Posted October 7, 2017 Not really sure where to start with this... I just spent a very long time talking with Lussian and we have worked out many things. Sometimes very small misunderstanding can turn into huge issues. After much realization, I want to apologize to Lussian and everyone else for bringing our issues into the public. We have since worked out the problems and decided to start with a clean slate because we both realize that we in fact do want the same things here and we are not doing anyone much good being at war with one another over silly things. So... From the bottom of my heart, please forgive me. I made a huge mistake that has been embarrassing and quite heavy on my mind over the past few days. I look forward to lending my hand to Lussian and all others to help out in any way I can to make all events better for everyone. I also want to quickly thank everyone for the support you have shown me over the years, even tho I have been known to make mistakes from time to time. It has not gone unnoticed and I very much appreciate it. MinervaX, Achroi, Oliver Cream and 17 others 20 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xanar Posted October 7, 2017 Share Posted October 7, 2017 I'm glad that you two talked about things . That's the secret: Comunication. Especially in a game like 3DX, where we can't read emotions from out faces.And people tend to assume stuff quickly. Your partner is online but nowhere to be found? Guess he/she's busy with someone else.A new gift in the profile of your partner? Guess they two had something. And 3DX is full of stuff like that. And that's why I say that people should use their mouth and talk talk talk. For nearly every problem is a solution. KYUSS, DanTheMan, Deeborah and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AllisonStarlove Posted October 7, 2017 Share Posted October 7, 2017 Hi, I'm pretty new here. All I can say is honesty and communication is always the best policy, especially with someone you care about as a friend and as a partner. It takes real maturity to work things out. (to bad the rest of the world can't seem to do that) Maelstrom, KYUSS and Jenzi 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lussian Posted October 7, 2017 Share Posted October 7, 2017 I really appreciate your post Jessica and Making errors is a part of what make the human kind beautifull. I do myself appologize for what I have done, intentionaly or not that could had hurt you deep without any intentions. Please let's moove on and look to the future forgeting the past and the misstakes. I sincerely wish that the errors from the past help to create a better futur for the game and the community. Hand to Hand we have all win to win. Communication is the key. KYUSS, Makkye, Niccolo and 7 others 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JessicaX Posted October 7, 2017 Author Share Posted October 7, 2017 I really appreciate your post Jessica and Making errors is a part of what make the human kind beautifull. I do myself appologize for what I have done, intentionaly or not that could had hurt you deep without any intentions. I sincerely wish that the errors from the past help to create a better futur for the game and the community. Hand to Hand we have all win to win. Communication is the key. Thank you... and you really have no idea how happy this makes me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Candice Posted October 7, 2017 Share Posted October 7, 2017 I'm glad that you two talked about things . That's the secret: Comunication. Especially in a game like 3DX, where we can't read emotions from out faces.And people tend to assume stuff quickly. Your partner is online but nowhere to be found? Guess he/she's busy with someone else.A new gift in the profile of your partner? Guess they two had something. And 3DX is full of stuff like that. And that's why I say that people should use their mouth and talk talk talk. For nearly every problem is a solution.This is the way exactly how you think. Talking about the post - better later than never. It is very strong motion you two guys have done. I can't say that I am not happy to see you both clapped your hands. I am glad that you realized your mistakes and found the way with what you two are going to move forward away from past. Past is our experience. *shares cookies with everyone* Sentra and JessicaX 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rob. Posted October 7, 2017 Share Posted October 7, 2017 After Monica and other shit, i will just move on without the baggage as i did a long time ago.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Volker Posted October 7, 2017 Share Posted October 7, 2017 Hello, without me to comment on the dispute itself, I would like to give @Xanar right. In the game, important functions are missing, you can not look into the eyes and also no emotions / reactions in his face. Therefore, it is so important that we replace it with words and describe it. Zbs "Hello you were online but I could not reach you" or "You got a gift from someone I do not know". I myself have already happened that I forgot to finish the game and went to my bed. Without going into further but the reaction of my then partner was already violent. So I find conversations, speeches, speeches is the most important. I'm just thinking it's here in the game. sorry for my bad english, google had to help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zokora Posted October 7, 2017 Share Posted October 7, 2017 Not really sure where to start with this... I just spent a very long time talking with Lussian and we have worked out many things. Sometimes very small misunderstanding can turn into huge issues. After much realization, I want to apologize to Lussian and everyone else for bringing our issues into the public. We have since worked out the problems and decided to start with a clean slate because we both realize that we in fact do want the same things here and we are not doing anyone much good being at war with one another over silly things. So... From the bottom of my heart, please forgive me. I made a huge mistake that has been embarrassing and quite heavy on my mind over the past few days. I look forward to lending my hand to Lussian and all others to help out in any way I can to make all events better for everyone. I also want to quickly thank everyone for the support you have shown me over the years, even tho I have been known to make mistakes from time to time. It has not gone unnoticed and I very much appreciate it. An awesome step that you made, Jessica. An argument mostly is hard to lay by as all involved think they are right. So I know how much it needs to get something sorted out and I appreciate your courage to make a first step.Furthermore it shows you are able to learn from things that do not work for you, and this makes you an amazing person. I think we all can learn of this as an example of how to put arguments aside, just keeping the following in mind:Assume everyone is acting in a positive intension, at least for himselfA right / wrong is only possible on facts, not on opinions or interpretationsForgiveness is not a sign of being right and being above the other, but to give up one's claim for revenge, which has nothing to do with right or wrong (see one point above)KissesZokora JessicaX and KYUSS 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nobody Posted October 7, 2017 Share Posted October 7, 2017 KYUSS 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matrix Posted October 7, 2017 Share Posted October 7, 2017 TEAM WORK KYUSS 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KYUSS Posted October 8, 2017 Share Posted October 8, 2017 TEAM WORK IT'S NOT HOW WE MAKE MISTAKES. .. ...BUT HOW WE CORRECT THEM THAT DEFINE US! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IJMmkAlx0lI chaostika, Sentra, Matrix and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jajaelle Posted October 8, 2017 Share Posted October 8, 2017 That's really nice from you both Jessica and Lussian, you show a good way for many others "maybe" ? KYUSS and chaostika 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YouAreMySpecial Posted October 8, 2017 Share Posted October 8, 2017 We learn from our mistakes all the time, I think one of the most important thing is to get to know people yourself first before you trust another's judgement. I've found myself in similar situations recently and am doing my best to get rid of the past. Trying to work out my dislike for some people as well, after all I said many times that I didn't hate anyone Only through self-reflection can you learn true humility. chaostika and KYUSS 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caren Posted October 8, 2017 Share Posted October 8, 2017 Love you, Jess. ♡ Sentra and JessicaX 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aliviax Posted October 9, 2017 Share Posted October 9, 2017 I saw cool ppl here so stop by to say hi <3 chaostika 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KYUSS Posted October 9, 2017 Share Posted October 9, 2017 #regarding to the last posts......but(t) #again? #really? #noway - That simply can't be and no, No, NOO00000oooooooooooooooooo... .. . chaostika and Sentra 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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