Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Jessica, and for inviting us to share ours too.
As someone who hosts as room in 3dx from time to time I would like to give an inside of my opinion here.
First of all I would never call myself a DJ and I never did. I stream the music I like in my room and I chose the songs and their orders very thoroughly, I change the playlist based on the mood in my room, on some chat contents or on visitor’s requests, but I do not mix live. Often it is automix, and as I got an appropriate program I edit the automix to make the transitions sound better.
I appreciate what DJ’s do, nevertheless my focus is rather on being in communication with the people, and mixing the music live would distract me too much to do so. But this is based on my favors, nothing universal. And the variety of favors is huge in 3dx.
Neverthless I like when the people appreciate my musical selection, or even 'wohoo' me with 'OMG, that song is awesome, I love you for playing it'. I as well love music, but it is not the main focus for me when I am in 3dx.
Regarding my room….. I simply called it Adventureworld, not being able to state what the people find there within the room title. Maybe I could add ‘No colds, no rudeness’, as these are the only rules in my room. I prefer the people to find out what they might find in my room and if they like it, this is part of the ‘adventure’. And even when I organize some event in my room, there is always people just disappearing somewhere in the wilderness of my room, and this is ok for me, as I agree they may not be here based on the Event aspect but just to explore the room. If 2 people are there and enjoy to explore my room, listen to my music, have sex in special places or for whatever reason, this is fine and is worth keeping my room open from time to time. I don’t care if People who come in listen to my music stream. I offer a room and some music I consider as awesome, but the visitors do not have to take it necessarily as a package.
I agree with you that there are some people who try to increase the visitor number by adding some ‘buzzwords’ like ‘orgy, slut, BBC…’. I can’t and I won’t prevent them from doing so, I just learned what I will find in those rooms and I know this is not where I would go…but that is no valuation, it is just not my preferences. As well as it is not my preference to go somewhere only to listen and dance to some music. The communication aspect and the sex of course (Isn’t that a sex game?) will be always my focus here.
Nevertheless I can comprehend your point of view as well and I love the variety of 3dx, which makes this place interesting for me, and maybe it is as well the time to exchange thoughts and opinions without trying to fight who is right and trolling each other, but just sharing thoughts.
In this spirit I hope you can keep the fun up in the game and have many hours of pleasure