Lesbians and Bi(no futa no men)

[Aliviax]

Hello ladies

 

The reason of this post is for all girls out there know that im building a house only for us Lesbian n Bi.

 

It will be your home!

 

Why i do this?

The answer is that i want u to have a place n meet each other,dance,have fun,chat and lots of sex n most important away from annoying men.

 

When u come plz dont be shy n pm the girl u like.

 

About music:im not a dj haha but i have lots of music ill try edit songs so they dont have gaps when ending n another is starting.

 

As i mentioned above its ur home so feel free to share with me what u like this home to have.

 

My ingame name is Alivia pm anytime

[JustSomeGirl]

Others have tried this but the men always crash...

 

Now if the Devs would kindly expand the room type to

 

All/Group/Female Only/Men Only/Lesbian/Gay

 

We might get somewhere

[Aliviax]

So u say that those men dont read the (no futa no men) phrase?

If not i can easy spam reports since they violate our privacy.

 

But no worries i can always make it only for friends since ill clear my list from males so no male see the house.

So a simple friend request n ur ok.

[Nitroo]

Oh another manhating lesbian.

The idea is not bad though, so good luck!

 

On the other hand Im worried about the community as more and more separating is going on here.

Well I guess thats humans nature...

[Aliviax]

Im not man-hating lul but trying to force ur presense in house that clearly says" stay away" kinda makes me mad.

About the seperation u say,thats the whole point of this house.

I might be young n new to game but i think we need n we deserve this

[Aliviax]

Anyway u girls dont worry ill solve anything,u just tell me ideas about what u like this house have.

Also music tell me what u like to listen

[TashaTight]

first off let me say why any guy would want to go in a room like that is beyond me but you are better off closing the room to just friends or group because reporting isnt going to do you any good, they arent breaking any rule. a public room is just that, you can put anything you want in the title, doesnt mean much. if you truly want a room with only certain people allowed to come in it, best to close it for friends and groups as you are doing. 

 

if a guy  comes in, block them. pretty easy... they can no longer see your public rooms in list

 

Think it's a ego thing really, that they think they're the exception that can make lesbians like men. Rest think RobT basically summed that up.

[Abbey]

Oh another manhating lesbian.

The idea is not bad though, so good luck!

 

On the other hand Im worried about the community as more and more separating is going on here.

Well I guess thats humans nature...

 

I see no man hating here, just a normal post advertising a room they are making. A place for others of same orientation to socialise. I'd hardly call that man hating or are all the F/M rooms out there lesbian and gay hating? All M/M rooms out there female hating? it's an interesting point of view you have taken to this thread.

 

Just as in real life the community is diverse and is made up of many people from all orientations. Seperation in the community can not be caused by peoples orientation or peoples want and desire to socially or sexually engage with others like them. It is caused by lack of understanding, lack of respect and prejudice.

 

Let me pose this question to you "Do you go to lesbian clubs in real life and expect it to be normal to be accepted inside the establishment as a Man?"

 

It is their right to seek the company of those that understand them and completely natural, there is nothing wrong with creating a room for a desired audience. I do not see you making same such statement against any other orientation that also makes their own exclusive rooms.

 

Food for thought.

 

Abbey ♡

[Nitroo]

I see no man hating here, just a normal post advertising a room they are making. A place for others of same orientation to socialise. I'd hardly call that man hating or are all the F/M rooms out there lesbian and gay hating? All M/M rooms out there female hating? it's an interesting point of view you have taken to this thread.

 

Just as in real life the community is diverse and is made up of many people from all orientations. Seperation in the community can not be caused by peoples orientation or peoples want and desire to socially or sexually engage with others like them. It is caused by lack of understanding, lack of respect and prejudice.

 

Let me pose this question to you "Do you go to lesbian clubs in real life and expect it to be normal to be accepted inside the establishment as a Man?"

 

It is their right to seek the company of those that understand them and completely natural, there is nothing wrong with creating a room for a desired audience. I do not see you making same such statement against any other orientation that also makes their own exclusive rooms.

 

Food for thought.

 

Abbey ♡

 

Hey Abbey, Im sorry if you or others got it wrong. I ment "manhating" rather in a funny way, that's why I added   and I think Aliviax also understood it more as a joke. Actually Im very tolerant as I even have a gay cousin and homosexual friends in real life.

No I don't go to lesbian clubs.

What I ment with separation is that people split more and more into groups in the game. Per countries, languages, music styles, sex, sexual preferences and so on. Personally I want to meet all kind of people from all parts of the world. And I'm glad to have also lesbians and transgenders as good friends here. So sometimes I just wish others would be more openminded too and there would be more together than against each other at 3dx.

But I also understand that some lesbians feel bothered by man, that's why I said the lesbian house isn't a bad idea.

So my posting wasn't ment offending in any way.

[Aliviax]

Hi everyone n good morning.

Yesterday for my time(london) till like 1 ago room was open.

I think it went good,very happy that i saw many girls having fun n be free.

I let the room open while i was sleeping,so sorry if music was repeating today ill have a bigger list.

After i finish school room will be open again with more stractures n beds sofa etc.

Perhaps room today wont be open for all bur rather only for friends so i can secure a male n futa free home as i have 0 men 0 futa friends.

So send me a friend request so u will be able to see the room n have access to it.

[JustSomeGirl]

I know a lot of guys that go into the local lesbian pub, most of them are gay and think it is a 'gay' pub and assume any other guy in the is gay

[Aliviax]

Dont know that place kinda new here

[Aliviax]

Now i shall add the term "no gay men" also

[Leeloo]

Think it's a ego thing really, that they think they're the exception that can make lesbians like men. Rest think RobT basically summed that up.

You are right , i don't count the number of men who said " it's because you didn't try with me" when i tell i'm lesbian lol

[JustSomeGirl]

KimmyFox, on 18 Jul 2017 - 06:09 AM, said:

Think it's a ego thing really, that they think they're the exception that can make lesbians like men. Rest think RobT basically summed that up.

 

You are right , i don't count the number of men who said " it's because you didn't try with me" when i tell i'm lesbian lol

 

I don't care about ego,I don't really dislike men, men just don't have the type of gear I want.

[MeiLing]

My avi might not be cute, or I am not often off line but I Barely have this kind of comment....even cold are becoming rare. So I am always wondering about this kind of comment. By the way, RobT is a cute guy: respectful.

[Aliviax]

ty for the info that men use female avis now i have to watch out for the details that will betray them and send em to the trash can 

omg in what lengths they go to see a naked girls seriously now 

why not be just their self n be kind to girls that ar into men ,i realy dont get it .

i could understans a gay man use a female avi but seriously straight men ?

its so ugly 

[JustSomeGirl]

Males playing girls are almost always FUTA and I have heard most the time always go for the gigantic sized boobs

 

Been with a few I thought were girls but sooner or later out comes the cock...

There are a few nice men around but just like RL most men are assholes...they cant hide that behind fake boobs

[Nitroo]

Males playing girls are almost always FUTA and I have heard most the time always go for the gigantic sized boobs

 

Been with a few I thought were girls but sooner or later out comes the cock...

There are a few nice men around but just like RL most men are assholes...they cant hide that behind fake boobs

You just called 90% of the members here assholes...

[JessicaX]

I think all you would really have to do is label a room as bi/lesbian and I'm sure that would be more than enough to keep straight men away.

 

I understand your sentiment and what you are trying to achieve. I also think it's a good idea because I always enjoy talking to like minded people who I can relate to.

 

I just think going with the attitude of "MEN STAY OUT!!!" is going to be met with some backlash. I have straight friends who enjoy going to gay bars.

 

My point is... just label the room as gay/lesbian and the straight men will not go near it. Adding "no men" will probably have an opposite effect.

[Sage Stoner]

Males playing girls are almost always FUTA and I have heard most the time always go for the gigantic sized boobs

 

I often find more than a little irony in the fact that people who come here to express their own sexuality end up denigrating the sexuality of others. 

 

Yes, there are a few men who like to use a female avi to cause trouble. Welcome to the Internet.

 

There are also many many genuinely transgender players here. So it bothers me when people repeat rumors about something of which they themselves show no real understanding.

 

Futanari are not the same as T-girls who are not the same as cross-dressers. And none of us deserve to be lumped together and dismissed as if our sexuality was any less genuine than anyone else's. 

 

Both here on the Forum and in the game itself, I have faced homophobia for being openly transgender and I have been insulted for being open about my true age. I have seen others who openly use racial epithets or complain about people using a language other than English.

 

I can understand why this happens. I get that people have "preferences." And I can appreciate that both males and females whose sexual orientation is toward women are uncomfortable about interacting with a male player using a female avi.

 

But you know what? Since its inception, the majority of female avis on this site have been operated by male players. And what's more, the Devs have always made an effort to make this place transgender friendly. To be honest, that is something I wish they would publicize more, because frankly anyone who doesn't get that, doesn't belong here.

[Guest Mulan]

There are a few nice men around but just like RL most men are assholes...they cant hide that behind fake boobs

 

I hate these generalized statements. Gender has nothing to do with who is an asshole. I have met an equal amount of female and male assholes. That is not many from either gender. As a male or a female you get cold's from women. A male makes colds and a big deal is made about it in local chat, a woman does the same thing and we just shrug and move on. If I get a cold from either gender, I shrug and move on, it is is persistent then I put them on ignore, I don't waste my time to tell them how much of an idiot I think they are publicly or privately.

 

Rather than grouping people we need to just be better human beings.

 

I tend to avoid rooms that are gender specific, I prefer to see all people.

[Sage Stoner]

I hate these generalized statements. Gender has nothing to do with who is an asshole.

 

I agree. But it probably also should be said that this is another of those never-ending Forum topics, simply because new people will always say things that leave veteran players shaking their heads and muttering "been there, done that." This phenomenon itself is hardly unique to 3DX or even the Internet. It is a built-in "feature" of human civilization.

 

Another aspect that we all need to be aware of is that the game is publicized or marketed differently in different places, and there will always be some players who join the game thinking that paying $20 a month entitles them to have sex with as many people as they want. That in and of itself is not untrue, but it doesn't mean that you can just cold the first person you see.

 

On the other hand, yes, colds are annoying. Yes, in the past I have been a total asshole back to people who colded me or who thought that telling Guin she has a great ass was a good way to start a conversation. But in the final analysis, declining a cold isn't really that much more of an imposition than saying "No thank you" to a verbal invitation to chat, is it?   

 

I really wish that the Devs would make more of an effort to develop the Read First section of the Forum into a useful archive by moving "Epi's Beginners Guide" and several other threads that contain useful information for newbies to that area. 

[Aliviax]

I have to say tho that im happy that ppl respected the tag of the room n didnt burge in.

In all honesty i named room this way so give all girls that are like me or bi the chance to be free in a room without anyone bothers them n have fun.

So yes ty for respecting eveyone n ill be sure make more parties also for all ppl like i did this weekend.

[Carrie]

My new outlook was tested last month. I had sex with a female avi that i found out a week ago was a guy. Instead of freaking i just accepted it, thanked him for being honest. That ended any sex with his female because not my thing but me and him are friends now, something i wouldnt have been able to do a year ago. What i am trying to say is if you take the time to talk to people who arent like you, you will have a better understanding of where they are coming from and you might just make a friend that a short while ago you wouldnt have.

Yes and we have become awesome friends and we can talk about anything. And ghost Fucking isn't entirely considered sex so we didn't actually have sex it was more like pose hopping. I was still new then and was learning. Off topic I am sure but it's a fantasy world gender should not matter honestly. I mean I play a female because in real life I can't be one so why can't I here? I'm pretty open and honest about who I am and I have made many good friends and also a few enemies. Many of my friends are women and they respect me just as much as i do them. Sorry forum newbie here so please forgive me if I am ranting.