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#1 lisafelicia

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Posted 05 July 2017 - 12:39 PM

afraid to post due to the fear of exposure 


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#2 TedTheMechanic

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Posted 05 July 2017 - 01:15 PM

a post about being afraid to post? ... thats something new ;)
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Posted 05 July 2017 - 01:29 PM

Don't be afraid Lisa... you are allowed to post everything you want to post. 

 

Many ppl try to judge about others because of their postings. And there are "special ppl" who wants to report ppl for their postings. 

 

The forum is like the chat for having fun and for interacting with like-minded ppl. It's like reallife, you will always have ppl who don't like you and otherwise.

 

Try to ignore them and everything will be fine.

 

I wish you a great time in here and in chat.

 

Have fun and stay kinky!



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Posted 05 July 2017 - 01:43 PM

Don't be afraid Lisa... you are allowed to post everything you want to post. 
 
Many ppl try to judge about others because of their postings. And there are "special ppl" who wants to report ppl for their postings. 
 
The forum is like the chat for having fun and for interacting with like-minded ppl. It's like reallife, you will always have ppl who don't like you and otherwise.
 
Try to ignore them and everything will be fine.
 
I wish you a great time in here and in chat.
 
Have fun and stay kinky!


No "Next topic please" this time?
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Posted 05 July 2017 - 02:02 PM

No "Next topic please" this time?

Ted my friend, not this time. The person behind LisaFelicia doesn't seem to be a pompous person and I have a good day. So everything is OK.  ;)

 

Joking aside...
 
I don't want anyone to be afraid of something in chat / forum has especially not about what you can write or not.
But yes, we all have to live with the reactions we get on our postings. Thanks for the hint!  :)
 
 

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Posted 05 July 2017 - 03:31 PM

afraid to post due to the fear of exposure

That's almost like saying you're worried about going to the beach in 3DXChat in case you get sunburnt ;)

 

Having said that, if you are concerned, don't follow Youtube links as the owner can see your IP address and any official mod on the forum (if there are still any) can also see your IP address when you posted. There are probably other instances too


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Posted 05 July 2017 - 03:56 PM

Read the title "reflections, contemplations, musings, and vapid thoughts"

 

an feels her mood improving .... thank you for you post Lisafelicia  :)


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Posted 06 July 2017 - 02:21 AM

i was on here as OOlisa and eventually got banned and my diary wiped  cause i mentioned nicknames names and games tooo close to people who are mean and create drama.  No formal full names but i revealed some truth they didn't like and when people get exposed for their  mindfuk game they get upset.   When the words are nonsensical they tend to laugh it off but when it reveals the truth they get all butt hurt  because they are exposed for the stooges they are.   so i must have gotten reported.

 

~waits to get banned again~


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#9 lisafelicia

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Posted 07 July 2017 - 04:36 AM

oh wow im still here LOL


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Posted 09 July 2017 - 02:00 PM

Well you get a comment from me merely for using the phrase 'vapid thoughts'.... nice


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Posted 15 July 2017 - 04:21 AM

~is flummoxed that  the word 'vapid' elicits such praise~   ~ giggles~


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Posted 17 July 2017 - 07:00 PM

~is flummoxed that  the word 'vapid' elicits such praise~   ~ giggles~

Elicits and flummoxed? You're spoiling us now :)


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Posted 18 July 2017 - 12:09 AM

dont be like TedTheMechanic  who is afraid to go to ban the person above you thread because we always spank him  post all you want Lisa


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Posted 18 July 2017 - 12:49 AM

dont be like TedTheMechanic  who is afraid to go to ban the person above you thread because we always spank him  post all you want Lisa

 

It's not the spanking he needs to worry about, it's the whip in your picture. The spanking would just be the Hors d'oeuvre, I fear. And I do mean 'fear'


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Posted 08 August 2017 - 04:58 AM

OK im still here.  just got out of a 20 day marraige so i been busy.   was totes devoted to the guy.  He is an awesome DJ and i learned alot from him about DJing and mixing.     20 days is a  success for me.   

 

First marriage was 3 hours.  I m sure she did NOT expect me to accept LOL.   

 

Second marriage was 10 days. It was to another decent DJ that i grew with here in 3DXland .   we had fun for months before tying the knot .  That dynamic didn't work because his friends disrespected me and i  was upset and he did not see how they had made me feel bad.   one of his friends sang a song in his native tongue about fukking him   in front of the Pool party we were at and it embarrassed the fuk out of me.  I may have over reacted and but he got butt hurts about me not taking her disrespect so i divorce him and gave him his freedom.  He was also  under control of the psychopath here in 3DXland  who coached him with tests to prove my existence.   which i passed but he kept making it more and more what i did NOT come here for.

 

Fortunately i am a loner.   A lone wolf although that whole Lycan shit has harshed me on that paradigm.   so lets just stay with Wild pony,  Untamed,  Uncontrollable, Unfettered and Unencumbered by alliances and complications and attachments.


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Posted 30 August 2017 - 03:53 AM

Marraiges here in 3DXland

 

I am officially ordained as a priestess and although marriages here are virtual,  i try to provide a semblance of   the joy and passion of the union that marriage brings to the environment here.  it can be a  fun and wondrous thing to be married.  but it can also ruin a good friendship unless ground rules are established to cement the events and hook ups that invariable happen here.    I can perform many denominations of ceremonies.   The  one presented her is my simple ceremony and takes only a few minutes.  i sometime  do it in Pink text to differentiate it from the normal flow of conversation.

 

some simple rules to follow are  for the one accepting to NOT accept immediately so that pictures can be taken.    once the ring is accepted they kiss and the should NOT break the kiss for awhile as everyone  applauds and congratulations are offered.  The petals fall during the kiss and STOP once the kiss is broken.

 

I can  play wedding songs and usually stop after about 30 minutes and people have gotten seated.   The words then go in silence (not tunes) normally.  Dping the ceremont in pink text is a nice touch).   i then restart my stream  with tunes until another DJ takes over the  spinning.  moving to another room for  the reception is   good OR a new room is loaded while i open my room for an interim place to hang until a new room is loaded.

 

Officiant and  partners should be in group chat so the flow and info goes smoothly.   no others need be there unless  maid of honor, etc have  cues and need to sync the flow or actions.    I need to be prompted to contnue after VOWS usually  so there is no big dead space.

 

Simple Wedding Ceremony::::::::::

 

person1, person2

 
Greeting
Thank you all for coming.  Please all have a seat and we can begin.
 
Statement
We are gathered here today to celebrate one of life's greatest moments, the joining of two hearts and to give recognition to the worth and beauty of love,
and to add our best wishes to the words which shall unite this couple in marriage.
Today we have come together to witness the joining of these two lives. For them, out of the routine of ordinary life, the extraordinary has happened. T
They met each other, fell in love and are finalizing it with their wedding.
A good marriage must be created. It is never being too old to hold hands.
It's remembering to say I love you every day and it is not just marrying the right person its being the right partner.
 
They will now exchange Vows
Vows
participants words
(group chat to prompt completion of vows for  partner and me to continue the flow of the ceremony)
 
 
I DO's
Person1,
do you take Person2 to be your Married Partner for life?  Do you promise to love, honor, cherish and protect her,
forsaking all others and holding only onto her?  Until death or account deletion?
Person2 ,
do you take Person1 to be your Married Partner for life?  Do you promise to love, honor, cherish and protect her,
forsaking all others and holding only onto her?  Until death or account deletion?
 
Wedding rings are an unbroken circle of love, signifying to all the union of this couple in marraige
 
Rings
Prepare your cameras peeps ^,^
Please exchange the rings
(acceptor holds off a bit so people can take pics)
(once accepted i continue while they kiss and petals fall,   
 
Pronounce
By the power vested in me  I now pronounce you wife and wife
You may kiss
I present to you  the happy couple!!!!!!!!  Person1 and Person2
(here i usually start up stream again and people stand and clap)
(kissing continues for more pics and words of congratulations from  people)
 
 
 
I can add more words or trim and add foreign  versions if desired.
i have done wiccan and hindu and jewish wedding as well.  and can also do the words in other languages or include other languages at the same time.

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Posted 30 August 2017 - 04:14 AM

Custom Rooms

 

There are many really cool rooms i have seen and lately they have gotten more elaborate and detailed as tools have com out for building.   An entire Modz forum exits for such endeavers.

 

be careful in  getting too detailed and  elaborate as it can cause lag such that people with sucky computers cannot enter and enjoy your prowess.   Rooms should be places to hang out and have fun and not a demonstration of ones skillz.  Here are a few i have seen.   The huge cocks are mine LOL

 

I was furtive when first building and it does take time but it is very satisfying and should be attempted eventually. 

 

Using others creations just speak LAME and shows  a singular lack of concern for expressing oneself.  It room should be a window to the soul and show creativity of the  owner.  I can understand with all have time pressures that prevent us from building our own rooms but come on,     do you really want to use another's room and look lame?   I have been told to enter my cock room in the competition and many have asked to help  make it better  by me  giving them the .DAT file and letting them have at it for a bit.  NOT gonna happen and i won't enter the room in  the competition because you have to submit the files.

 

If one has skiils you do NOT need 3rd party tools  like the room builder to line up stuff.  It speakes lame skills and small misalignments and flaws are actualy showing cherecter and effort.  I get sooo harshed by all the round rooms now especially when the have domes that make navigsation painful and difficult.   cracks me up when sheeple aplaud the fancy rooms like that and then go walkabout bashing their brains into the walls cause they flycammed out and clicked a wall feature

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Posted 30 August 2017 - 05:15 AM

Everyday many builders make themselves available to give tips about what works for them and what fail for them. Lisa is an incredible builder, organizer, DJ and one of the best friends I have in the game. She keeps learning, keeps growing, she is fucken amazing. 


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Posted 14 September 2017 - 09:51 PM

Successful  rooms formula:

 

There are many factors that control the success of rooms.  There are also many measures of success depending on what you want .  I have had  what i consider success with fewer than 10 people in  my room.    Chat in local is sometimes a measure and not just room attendance numbers.   Quality instead of quantity  is  always satisfying  to enhance your  3DX experience All things go into the  equation and these few steps are ones i have shared with others and also are  a compendium of suggestions and help i received as a noob DJ starting out, (loves mi irish lass sensei).  Many have helped me learn and grow  and i cannot thank them enough for  watching out for me having my back.  

 

The  following  list is in order of  importance  but not necessarily  cast in stone.  sometimes i stop greeting when the room gets big and i can't read the names as peeps crowd the   spawn point.   the list comes from the statistics I have  gathered in  my year of DJing and observing

 

1.   Keeping the room name on top of the For You list.

   First order.   MOST important for high  numbers.   Be  prepared with lots of gold to keep it at the top and top it occasionally  or constantly depending on the room you  are contending  with.

   I love a good topping war but don't be too greedy,    I have been iggied by  owners of competing rooms because i pissed them off so severely and harshed their room numbers LOL  

   it is also fun when a freind has  a good room and  you  take turns topping  someones room.   saves gold and allows both rooms to get numbers.

   It is a statistics game  and people  here seem to always  go to the top room first.  It is just the way it is. Some will wade through the names looking  for specific room types but   this is not  the norm  for the general populace.

 

2.   Greet People. 

   Say Hi or hello or welcome AND their name. This works wonders making people feel included in the  scene.   They will stay if they are recognized and like the  tunes and the calibre of the people in the room.   so many are left out of the clubs  and cliques and gangs here.  It is sad to see  and true many here are   damaged and broken and probably should NOT be breathing my air but a concerted effort to make people feel comfortable and included is never a bad thing.

An added benefit  to greeting is that people who are focussed on Local Chat Blatherings suddenly see the name of a bestie or freind and can also greet making for more exciting associations and involvement.    someday I will create an AVI named Greeter 

 

3.  Having  a room name to reflect the purpose of the room.

Colds OK or Not,  Dance,Chill,   special fetish  scenes etc.   Be consistent with your tunes.    If you  are using radio.....  go suck adog

 

4.  Easy accessible   room

So many rooms are full of stuff and complicated to navigate.   LAG is caused by too many  lights and items associated with movement. Do NOT try to impress and show off.  Keep It   Simple,Silly  KISS     it becomes no one and people will NOT stay if it takes forever to load or move around.      Complicated  threshold transitions take time to learn and there are  many ways to get over a room boundary threshold leaving some moon walking and getting frustrated.    Inside rooms are  especially  damning due to the difficulty to fly cam out and see where  dafuq you are.    I spun a room once with a light house and navigation was soooo difficult i got pissed cause i could not find the way to get to the DJ decks LOL... Major fukked up room for a noob experience.

 

5. Advertise  in World   Chat

 A nice  advertisement   to  Copy  Paste is nice as long as you do NOT post tooo much.     Once every 50 lines of World Chat Blather between ads is a minimum or you look desperate and lame.    Make it Simple and easy to  read.

 

6.   Spam  your Freind   list with the advertisement

 

A colleague taught me this one and it works great especially when you DJ an event along with other DJ's.       Do  Not be dissaponted if they do not show or do not respond.

 

 

 

burnt out now  more to follow


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Posted 19 September 2017 - 04:51 PM

Fun guide lines would take notes, however you forgot the most important thing, once in the room, to HAVE FUN. Fact is this is supposed to be fun. All parties can become memorable events if the host, the guests and the Djs are all having fun. 




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