Masturbating in front of computer

[LaraF]

Masturbating in front of computer

Knowing, i'm not the only one, doing it in front of my Laptop when playing 3DXCHAT with a partner or two in this game. But i'm still curious about this.

 

On the web i found some arguments due to which we would get into the mood of masturbating in front of our Computers:

 

     - A 'spontaneous' reaction due to stimulation of a chat, pictures, videos or other content delivered through the computer.

 

     - A 'planned' Action: You knew beforehand that you would like to masturbate and looked for stimulating content.

 

     - You get 'talked into' Action: Someone is talking you into masturbation - most likely during an interactive text, audio or videochat session.

 

     - You are a horny slut or a (normal) boy.

 

     - In a momentarily lapse of amnesia, you forgot there were other things you wanted to do.

 

     - For purely scientific field research.

 

     - You feed a webcam site and receives money for doing "masturbation shows".

 

 

 

 

Feel free to discuss this subject without taboos. I'm looking forward to your contributions.

 

Of course you guys are also welcome!

[KYUSS]

 

 

 

 

---

[Athena Starfire]

When I have a hot normal woman (non-FUTA) licking my pussy and using very descriptive dialog I can't help rubbing my clit and using my "toys". My vibrating egg (Thanks MeiLing!!) and my 12" dildo (NOT shaped like a penis) and of course the towels on my plastic covered chair and a bite rag next to me to keep from screaming when I orgasm so I don't disturb the neighbours...

 

Obviously my experience is Lesbian..I had intercourse with a male once in High School (because that's what girls do, I was told)..bad experience..then I met an older woman who introduced me to the joys of lesbianism. I never looked back!

 

I most the time cum as least 4 times (in RL) during a course of a good hour long+ Session with one (I WISH 2 or 3..make these poses you fuckin devs) of my favourite girls. I don't see this as being weird or perverted (my family already calls me that for being lesbian). "What you do in the privacy of your own home" kind of thing. Although it is kind of hard to type one handed..(the hands free egg doesn't always do it for me) I can achieve some mind-shattering orgasms, some times better than those with a real woman.

 

I think (IMHO) this is much better than doing it to some good lesbian porn because you have interaction with the person your 'fucking'. And you don't really know the person, what they look like actually, and lets face it, NO ONE is really unattractive in 3DX and there is mostly no emotional baggage (the morning after stuff) or chance of an STD. It also helps to have a very active imagination, like when I lick my own fingers with my own pussy juice on them and imagine its my partners. Also I don't care who is on the other end of the screen If they act like a woman, look like a woman and act like a lesbian they can get me off.  I can usually spot a male easily because a male would have no idea how to act like a lesbian   Normal MF sex they might be able to pull it off.

 

Well, now I'm convinced you all think I'm certifiable for the loony bin...but what a great way to go. between my virtual lovers legs with my tongue up a sweet vagina.

 

GAWD ...now I'm wet...hope some of my girls are on

[Nitroo]

Well to be honest, just the animations, as good as they are, can't turn me on enough to masturbate and cum. It's the words ...and when you feel your partner gets so excited that he/she can just type something like uejwrnbgiwKJERG09856$§%%//$% anymore, that's passion.

[Guest Twiggy]

Hey Nitroo, I know exactly what you mean, trying to type especially towards the end of things is a real bugga and although my typing doesn't get s bad as what you showed, it does get to a point where I can hardly read what I wrote myself.

I got myself a small blue tooth keyboard just for that reason, I like to try keep typing, well as much as I can anyway and letting the guy I am with know where I am with things.

Not only is it fair as I expect him to do the same, but also is part of what gets me going, knowing and being able to imagine him getting off on what I am letting him know.

 

I think I have asked for this in these forums before, but it would be really cool if we had like a level of arousal indicator and how close to orgasm indicator.

A lot of it is visual, we can use our avis and the speed to help things which does help with the typing issue, there we can do things just with the click of a mouse that lets our partners know certain things.

An arousal indicator can be used the same way, eg, someone says something that really gets you going, you just slide the indicator way up and he knows, all so easy instead having to type a mountain of text to let him know.

 

Also I think we should be able to hand over control, and ask to take control, where one of us is able to select poses without the other having to accept.

So many times I have had to get myself up to click accept, there should at least be a function key or something assigned to do that.

Which would be a lot easier than having to find your mouse, move it to the right spot and click when your eyes tend to be focussed at the back of your head.

Plus they need to think a little more about us girls and what we have to deal with, like we end up having to type one handed fairly early in or make a mess of the keyboard.

[xMaceyx]

When I first joined this game masturbating in front of the computer was not something I ever did, I would role play with people and go through all the poses but it was more just fun than to get off. That changed when the opportunity to have sex with someone I had long been friends and adored on this game came around { thankyou Justa  }, it was like I had been building up a huge amount of sexual tension and I just exploded and every time thereafter.

 

But that is the thing for me, I only find myself getting off when its with someone I care about, they mean something to me, if its just some random person most likely I will type away but as for masturbating ..not  likely.

 

And is it just me ... or does the thought or knowing that the other person is getting themselves off as you role play heighten the pleasure even more.

[Guest Twiggy]

For me it is a must that I am at least fairly certain the other person is getting off on what I say and do, that is what gets me going, if I don't get the right response or even feel the other person is just playing, it won't work for me.

I am really selective on who I have sex with, perhaps even as much as I would be in rl if I was to like find sex outside of relationships.

Not only do I need to have like developed a sexual attraction to him, there is also a lot of problems can come from just getting with the wrong person in 3DX.

I have found people can easily develop infatuations in there, and clingers are always a problem.

So being very selective is important I feel.

[Athena Starfire]

Plus they need to think a little more about us girls and what we have to deal with, like we end up having to type one handed fairly early in or make a mess of the keyboard.

 

I hear you sister...I have a solution I have a removable plastic cover for my keyboard, you can usually get these in an office supply shop (where I got mine) the mouse isn't to bad to clean up..

 

Twiggy, on 28 May 2017 - 1:29 PM, said:

--

Not only do I need to have like developed a sexual attraction to him, there is also a lot of problems can come from just getting with the wrong person in 3DX.

I have found people can easily develop infatuations in there, and clingers are always a problem.

So being very selective is important I feel.

-----

 

Everyone is sexually attractive in 3DX, everyone is an Adonis or an Aphrodite. I don't want to even know what the person I'm with looks like in real life. As to actually getting aroused all that take is a woman between my legs

 

This is why I love the ignore list in 3DX, not only can you make that you never get message from a person again. You can make them not exist anymore. Put them on complete ignore you not only dont see messages or chat, you never even see their avatar ever again..Its really funny when I see (or better don't see ) a male that cant read a profile that I have put on ignore, it looks like someone is fucking the invisible man.

 

So wish you could do that in real life...

[Guest Twiggy]

There is more to sexual attraction than how someone looks, well there is for me anyway.

The way a person thinks, reacts to what I say and his general attitude towards sex I find important.

For example if a guy introduces himself to me and starts asking if I like it up the ass, I most definitely will not find him sexually attractive.

Yes all our avis look good, and that I find makes things a very even playing field for everyone, we don't find the normal hang ups around how a person looks.

That can be a benefit to people that have confidence in how they look as much as people who are not confident in their looks.

It is good being able to represent yourself and attract people where your personality is the main thing on show.

So no, I don't find everyone in 3DX sexually attractive, and I do not just go with anyone to their bed.

There are definitely things in what a guy says that can be a sexual attraction or a sexual turn off.

 

As far as iggy goes, I take a lot of pride in being able to say I do not have anyone on iggy.

I think there are people in 3DX that are far to willing to do things they wouldn't if iggy was not there.

It has its uses yes, but is often used as a cop out or to hide from people that really should get apologised to.

I don't mean to bag the people that just go with anyone who asks, it is just not for me and I try to give people in the game the same respect I would give someone in real life.

Hurting someone is hurting someone, even if what they are doing is causing you problems, often they deserve better than to be just put on iggy.

This is just my view on it, not trying to start anything here.

[Guest Mulan]

thats me 100 percent still. mostly its for my partner , i enjoy it but not that much. could also be that an ex was into these 6 hour sex sessions . after a while it seemed like another job

You are doing it wrong.

 

I very rarely watch "porn" anymore. The good thing about 3DX is that there are people on either side of the computer. It is interactive. With the right partner it is almost as satisfying as real life sex (yes, I have had sex in real life plenty of times). It is important that both sides really feel it, there is something special about sharing the experience, cumming together, even though you are not in the same room, you feel connected for the time you are together.

 

Also you are not completely aware of how the person looks. It is mainly the mind. The talking. And I think those are incredibly sexy. If we took away the looks are gender which we are physically attracted to then the real world could be a very different place, because the mind and conversation is more sexy to me.

 

There have been times where I have not felt it. I have gone through the motions of writing roleplay, and I guess it may get the other person off. It doesn't feel "right" though, I feel like I have not given them my all.

[Athena Starfire]

There is more to sexual attraction than how someone looks, well there is for me anyway.

The way a person thinks, reacts to what I say and his general attitude towards sex I find important.

For example if a guy introduces himself to me and starts asking if I like it up the ass, I most definitely will not find him sexually attractive.

 

I pretty much agree with you there...but I'm in a different camp. I don't think I was "born lesbian", I chose to be.

Mainly because i would say 90% of the men I met growing up, in HS and in University were just plain arrogant assholes.

I state very boldly in my profile that I am not into men. I don't want to talk to them or be with them.

 

I realize there are 'nice guys' out there I have met a few in RL, But I don't have the time of the desire to sift though and find them.

Although I'm 'gay' I don't get along with gay guys, But back to 3DX...the only reason I have so many males on my ignore list is because they can't fucking read..asking me if I take it up the ass is an instant ignore...any proposal of sex is an instant ignore. READ THE FUCKING PROFILE..A cold slam partner request is an instant ignore. A partner request when Im with a girl is an Instant ignore..why would I want a 3some (The only one in the game FFM). If the devs would get off there arse and make a FFF I would be more than happy

 

---

[AnyNameWillDo]

 The good thing about 3DX is that there are people on either side of the computer.

 

Indeed, this is the key aspect to making the sex fulfilling

[Nitroo]

Hey Nitroo, I know exactly what you mean, trying to type especially towards the end of things is a real bugga and although my typing doesn't get s bad as what you showed, it does get to a point where I can hardly read what I wrote myself.

I got myself a small blue tooth keyboard just for that reason, I like to try keep typing, well as much as I can anyway and letting the guy I am with know where I am with things.

Not only is it fair as I expect him to do the same, but also is part of what gets me going, knowing and being able to imagine him getting off on what I am letting him know.

 

I think I have asked for this in these forums before, but it would be really cool if we had like a level of arousal indicator and how close to orgasm indicator.

A lot of it is visual, we can use our avis and the speed to help things which does help with the typing issue, there we can do things just with the click of a mouse that lets our partners know certain things.

An arousal indicator can be used the same way, eg, someone says something that really gets you going, you just slide the indicator way up and he knows, all so easy instead having to type a mountain of text to let him know.

 

Also I think we should be able to hand over control, and ask to take control, where one of us is able to select poses without the other having to accept.

So many times I have had to get myself up to click accept, there should at least be a function key or something assigned to do that.

Which would be a lot easier than having to find your mouse, move it to the right spot and click when your eyes tend to be focussed at the back of your head.

Plus they need to think a little more about us girls and what we have to deal with, like we end up having to type one handed fairly early in or make a mess of the keyboard.

 

Yes Twiggy, these are problems. Maybe some audio connection to hear each other instead of typing is the solution. 3dx should ad this.

[chloe]

I always masturbate in front of my PC, cause behind there is not so much space and it is a bit dusty.

[AnyNameWillDo]

I always masturbate in front of my PC, cause behind there is not so much space and it is a bit dusty.

 So you've tried to, then?

[KYUSS]

I always masturbate in front of my PC, cause behind there is not so much space and it is a bit dusty.

---

 

[AnyNameWillDo]

I hear you sister...I have a solution I have a removable plastic cover for my keyboard, you can usually get these in an office supply shop

 

Good idea, I'm sure that works with semen too...

 

My laptop can look like it's made from marble sometimes....

[chloe]

So you've tried to, then?

As an open minded girl you have to try everything ^^

[U-E]

Well, I'm not one for jizzing in front of or behind my computer. But I do struggle with a serious moment of late indecision on whether to aim jizz on the computer, or on myself when it happens. ....sometimes both if it really is a real woman with a female avi! (which is as rare as unicorn shite).

 

Anyway, I dare say its safe to say that most or all on 3dxchat will be slapping the salami, bashing the bishop, yanking the chain, tugging the tank, saucing the salad, having a knuckle shuffle, squawking the funky chicken or shaking hands with the unemployed. However, not so many would have the confidence or desire to admit it which is fair enough.

 

 I joke a lot about being a user of this game, yet seldom actually engaging in anything remotely sexual, especially recently. This is because apart from not being pleasurable to the eyes, I am a romantic type - something others have mentioned to be their preference too - as opposed to the cold bangers and mash cock throttling/knob-gobblin approach. There is that golden layer to the game, for those who seek it, of incredible mental connection that can be as intense, if not more so, than sex in real life. Many or most of us would prefer the real thing of course, but none the less, I feel and often say this game is great therapy; a way to relax.

 

 My past run at the game a couple of years back saw a long wait for an amazing partner who wasn't really seeking my detailed, descriptive approach but after experiencing multiple orgasms from it she found herself learning much about herself as well as me. And on the other hand, myself thinking I was all for passionate yet gentle foreplay and smooth sex I soon found out I got quiet a spark out of more rough and aggressive sex. So I learnt a lot about myself too. The connection was all in the mind, and it was that which gave the most stimulation.

 

The visuals were helpful especially when either of us would opt for a position change that was exactly what the other wanted. We both were aroused in knowing what we each were actually doing to ourselves and the mess we were making  during the encounters. And we used a basic system of longer and capitalised "ooowwws" and "Ahhhhhs" to indicate our being close to climaxing. More often than not, I'd go through the motions with her until satisfied, making sure I was still able to type my descriptions and movements in a fairly clear manner and then she would tend to my needs. Both of us experienced multiple orgasms far more intense than we'd ever experienced with anyone else, and possibly ever again. In real life though, its likely to not have worked so well. But who knows?

 

I think a 'build up' meter would be an excellent idea as suggested, as would be the auto-allow position option. We each play in our way according to our preferences, and learn about others while learning about ourselves too. To advance the stimulation and physically attempt a wank-a-thon in front of, behind, under or over your computer is natural and part of the game really

[MeiLing]

 

 

I think a 'build up' meter would be an excellent idea as suggested, as would be the auto-allow position option

 

I got this with another game absolutely useless. It reflects the arousal of the bot (based on speed, position changes, etc). In this kind of games, what matters is your human partner,...and his/her arousal can't be the same as the one of the bot. ..About auto-allow position..;chunder. 

How do you write while you are masturbating (I use eggs with remote control, not always). It is a mind stimulation for me: brain orgasm. Am I alone to feel this? 

To be true I can't imagine that it is possible to masturbate for two or three hours. It shows that there are many way to play, to feel and to come.

[chloe]

that is where we differ i guess. in my mind it nowhere near equal or fulfilling as real life but that doesnt mean it cant be for some  also as far as the rp goes i have come across some very "canned"  rping. by canned i mean pretty much the same thing over and over. so maybe thats it also. i would pick real as the best, phone as two and rping as 3. phone sex does alot for me mainly due to the voice on the other end i am guessing

And you wonder why you are a bad 3dx lesbian

[LaraF]

WOW, I am overwhelmed by the many posts in this thread. And I must confess that I recognize myself in many of your remarks.

So I have the same difficulties to keep myself troubled and write clear sentences at the same time.

I also attached a wireless keyboard and mouse after a friend asked whether a misfortune happened to my laptop.

I could convince her that I had spilled something and the notebook was probably a bit lucky not to have been damaged.
Like Chloe, I've never tried it behind my screen. It is simply not as interesting there .... but if the cover would be mirrored, well ....
And yes, i agree, having fun here with real people at the "other end" is not the same as having real sex and i don't want to miss this but it can be as exciting and really satisfying ...

Further i'm looking for some toys now to get my hands free when playing, but I'm still not sure which one is the best...

Thanks for all your contributions, I am looking forward to more of your experiences with you and other players, and especially with you in front of your computers

[violetvv]

I'm not super young (nor single) but I definitely become aroused while in game, typing, sometimes physically helping things along, with fingers, a strategic touch, here, and there, and there too, thighs gently rubbing, etc.  But never have outright pleasured myself (as in to 'fruition' lol) while in the game.  Because of many factors, mainly time and privacy, and lack of both lol  

 

Though I can see the appeal of making that connection, of a simultaneous orgasm via this interface.  Difficult enough to achieve in the flesh, so I applaud those who can and do!

 

In the game itself, I get my "kicks" from the buildup to the act itself, like we're writing a mini story for a random encounter.  Though of course I linger, I stay with my partner until they 'finish'.  Unless it's taking too long!  I feel it's the equivalent to giving a blowjob lol

 

The biggest thing is I can't get away with doing multihour sessions, not usually, and even one is often pushing it, because of my lack of time and privacy mentioned earlier.

 

Addressing some of the issues mentioned earlier, it does happen sometimes, people getting clingy.  But I don't really do "romance", or am I on often enough to encourage it, but I can see the ignore button being helpful if it ever becomes a total nuisance.

 

Another thing, I really do need for my partner to be aroused for my mediocre writing to have any kind of effect lol  If I'm on only for a few minutes at a time, and I prefer writing the buildup, what do I get out of it?  Is what I'm often asked! lol  I bring it back to the giving a blowjob metaphor.  I am absolutely aroused while doing so, but have no need to pleasure myself as part of it.  I do expect my partner to be aroused however, would be a very awkward, and perhaps personally soul crushing ( lol ) blowjob if that wasn't the case!  But if I've not helped them 'finish' before I am called away I only hope I've been of some assistance 

 

 

 

 

[Athena Starfire]

I got this with another game absolutely useless. It reflects the arousal of the bot (based on speed, position changes, etc). In this kind of games, what matters is your human partner,...and his/her arousal can't be the same as the one of the bot. ..About auto-allow position..;chunder. 

How do you write while you are masturbating (I use eggs with remote control, not always). It is a mind stimulation for me: brain orgasm. Am I alone to feel this? 

To be true I can't imagine that it is possible to masturbate for two or three hours. It shows that there are many way to play, to feel and to come.

 

Sounds like you are talking about 3DSexVilla 2...I have that but only for artistic purposes. I don't get off on fucking bots;

You introduced me to the 'egg' but at times I need more one handed typing is hard..but I need the descriptive to get off. Your not alone sweety..The mind stimulation is everything and a good imagination is key..When you can put your mind into a state you can almost physically feel what your partner is doing you can bring yourself to a mind- shattering orgasm. (you did it to me )..keep on keeping on

[Leeloo]

and to add my 2 euro cent , we lesbians are a bit forced to seek for mind orgasm as we have less sexual options than others in adult games ( can be 3DX , Chathouse or Achat or any other ) and our imagination do a loooooot of the work ( But as Athena said , we sometimes need more than a vibrating dildo/egg/duck or any type of toy and our fingers are really some good toys )