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This is a call to everyone that may have already decided to avoid World Chat forever, or completely given up on it. It is a call for us to take our game back from a small group of people that have no purpose for being on this game except for rotting away on World Chat all day harassing and attacking people and giving the game of 3dx a bad name and ruining it for others.

 

 

It's simple, when you see these people, doing what they do, just put them on chat ignore. If enough people do this they will no longer have anyone to talk to except the 5 or 6 of them that call each other friends and we can take World Chat back and make it good again (if it ever was). I realize forums is completely infested with trolls and hateful, angry people. Almost all of them being the same people that are ruining World Chat, so I realize I will come under attack for this post by them and their small minded "friends" but it is ok, I am willing to make that sacrifice to make 3dx a better and safer place for people to enjoy.

 

Let them call me a man, let them call me someone else's alt. They resort to such verbal abuse often when they have nothing intelligent to say in response (which is just about always). I have really stopped caring what they think except for that to make them stop ruining the game for everyone that comes across World Chat.

 

You know who they are, they know who they are, and they know what they are doing. It's obvious and it's wrong. I hope you join me in making 3dx a better place for everyone here. Thanks.

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I understand and support what you're doing if it makes the game a pleasant experience for you, but I won't be joining you in ignoring people. Personally, when people troll or are hateful towards me, I find it amusing. It gets even more entertaining when the someone starts trolling the trolls. I know and am comfortable with who I am, my friends know my truth and anyone who chooses to join the trolls or believe what they say about me.. well I'm better off not knowing them and just sitting back with my popcorn and entertaining myself.

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I played a lot of MMORPG and my experience is that "General chat" or "world Chat" are allways the worst place of those games.

 

World chats are home of trolls, dramas and empty debates. That's why they exists and you can do nothing about it. It's a fundamental rule of the internet universe.

 

For your mental health : never read what is on general chat! If you have a question write it and wait for someone PM you with answer. But never a constructive things were writed on a general chat.

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I understand and support what you're doing if it makes the game a pleasant experience for you, but I won't be joining you in ignoring people. Personally, when people troll or are hateful towards me, I find it amusing. It gets even more entertaining when the someone starts trolling the trolls. I know and am comfortable with who I am, my friends know my truth and anyone who chooses to join the trolls or believe what they say about me.. well I'm better off not knowing them and just sitting back with my popcorn and entertaining myself.

Ok then, this post wasn't meant for people like you then. Enjoy your trolls.

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I understand and support what you're doing if it makes the game a pleasant experience for you, but I won't be joining you in ignoring people. Personally, when people troll or are hateful towards me, I find it amusing. It gets even more entertaining when the someone starts trolling the trolls. I know and am comfortable with who I am, my friends know my truth and anyone who chooses to join the trolls or believe what they say about me.. well I'm better off not knowing them and just sitting back with my popcorn and entertaining myself.

I have to disagree with you on this, Domonique.

 

While I mostly find WC quite a funny place where no one should expect too many serious things going on, I've noticed this trend towards really very low level personal harassments, too. If the trolls troll themselves, ok, so be it, but when for example newbies asking for help are harassed merciless, I simply fail to see the "fun" in it. The same goes for homophobic rants and alike.

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in the situation you describe, you're right, there is no fun in newbs not getting the help they need and no one deserves to be harassed, which is why I said I support Bree and others who choose to ignore them.

 

What I said was very generalized and maybe I should have explained better. Using your examples, if I saw a newb not getting the help they needed, I'd PM them and offer them my help, being what Fox calls a veteran player. In the instance where someone is being harassed, I'd find amusement in it when an 'anti-troll' steps in and takes the trolls attention away from them, sometimes I try to be that 'anti-troll' but unfortunately I am not as good at it as others. On the side, I might PM the person being harassed and make sure they're ok.

 

I'm far from heartless, as my first response probably made me out to be.

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in the situation you describe, you're right, there is no fun in newbs not getting the help they need and no one deserves to be harassed, which is why I said I support Bree and others who choose to ignore them.

 

What I said was very generalized and maybe I should have explained better. Using your examples, if I saw a newb not getting the help they needed, I'd PM them and offer them my help, being what Fox calls a veteran player. In the instance where someone is being harassed, I'd find amusement in it when an 'anti-troll' steps in and takes the trolls attention away from them, sometimes I try to be that 'anti-troll' but unfortunately I am not as good at it as others. On the side, I might PM the person being harassed and make sure they're ok.

 

I'm far from heartless, as my first response probably made me out to be.

Twice in the last week I have seen someone new ask for help and been completely ignored while the usual suspects just hurl and sling insults back and forth right over the top of them. Both times I offered my help to these people and both instances I made a new friend.

 

Bottom line, these people are bad for the game. You don't even see them anywhere on the game actually playing it. They don't interact sexually with anyone on the game, which is incredibly odd considering it is a sex game. Actually they seem to frown upon anything sexual and make fun of people who enjoy it. It really makes absolutely zero sense that these people are even here.

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WC is a good place to watch if you want to confirm your misanthropic wiews. I take a look there at times and see only nonsense, trolling and stupidity. Seems to be a place well suited for narcissistic, self-deluded attention whores.

The people I see active on WC I generally avoid having any contact with in the game. But I see no reason to put them on iggy for using WC.

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WC is a good place to watch if you want to confirm your misanthropic wiews. I take a look there at times and see only nonsense, trolling and stupidity. Seems to be a place well suited for narcissistic, self-deluded attention whores.

The people I see active on WC I generally avoid having any contact with in the game. But I see no reason to put them on iggy for using WC.

I'm not going to lie, I had to google misanthropic.

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Malvasiah said...
 

 

The people I see active on WC I generally avoid having any contact with in the game. But I see no reason to put them on iggy for using WC.

 

BreeSummers said...

 

Twice in the last week I have seen someone new ask for help and been completely ignored while the usual suspects just hurl and sling insults back and forth right over the top of them. Both times I offered my help to these people and both instances I made a new friend.

 

Ignoring them, Malvasiah, cleans it up so that you can see the requests from people that need help and the more interesting conversations.

 

Like Bree, I helped someone (by pm) who was wanting to window 3dxchat and I almost missed their request because it was pushed off the top of the (ridiculously) limited sized chat by crap and, as far as I know, no one else responded.

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Hi there,

 

To the risk of being called stupid too, here's my thought...

I think Bree is right that those people shouldn't be on here, but since they are, there's little we can do about it.

 

Putting them on ignore will only temporarily suppress the problem, until they created a new avatar that's not on your ignore list.

 

So I guess it's one of those things we'll have to learn to live with. Like I don't take a walk all alone in the slums after midnight either.

 

And I admit that sometimes when there's little activity online, I read them too. If taken second degree, they are sometimes really hilarious. And it's assuring to know that even when I don't consider myself being bright, I still have a few neurons more than those guys. ;) 

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WC, for all the social rejects of 3DX :P

Baahaaa,  not all but many there are. Every single time ive clicked WC to see whats happening in World Chat,  there is a group of the same people abusing each other, hating on others and complaining about others enjoying the game. Seems pretty obvious they suck at the game and hide in their rooms and talk dirt on WC. Its just a mirror to reality, the people who feel rejected hide away in a remote spot and talk hate because that's how they feel toward the people and the environment that rejects them. The personalities are pretty much the same, not people you like and grow tired of in like the first few minutes of talking to them.

 

The reason they stay in a game they hate is because of spite, to make us all suffer. They will disagree I'm sure with what I said but we all know as they do that to some degree I'm correct.

 

Not everyone, obviously, that talks in WC is the Social Reject but many of the WC faithful, the ones you rarely see out and about are.

 

I agree with you, if we all just igged the haters then they would devour each other. :P

 

Everything I said is pure speculation of course and no harm was meant to the powder puffs on WC, yas have mah RespeKts Yo! :P

 

Side note, nah not really @(>j<)@

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WC, for all the social rejects of 3DX :P

Baahaaa,  not all but many there are. Every single time ive clicked WC to see whats happening in World Chat,  there is a group of the same people abusing each other, hating on others and complaining about others enjoying the game. Seems pretty obvious they suck at the game and hide in their rooms and talk dirt on WC. Its just a mirror to reality, the people who feel rejected hide away in a remote spot and talk hate because that's how they feel toward the people and the environment that rejects them. The personalities are pretty much the same, not people you like and grow tired of in like the first few minutes of talking to them.

 

The reason they stay in a game they hate is because of spite, to make us all suffer. They will disagree I'm sure with what I said but we all know as they do that to some degree I'm correct.

 

Not everyone, obviously, that talks in WC is the Social Reject but many of the WC faithful, the ones you rarely see out and about are.

 

I agree with you, if we all just igged the haters then they would devour each other. :P

 

Everything I said is pure speculation of course and no harm was meant to the powder puffs on WC, yas have mah RespeKts Yo! :P

 

Side note, nah not really @(>j<)@

Sometimes I try to picture the incredibly wrong turn they made that ended in them being in a sex game. I mean seriously, like you said they just hide in their rooms and rant and rave all day in world chat. Why here? Why a sex game? Most of the time they are harassing everyone, everything and all things sexual!!! What sense does that make??? Hello?! Seriously these people should quit and join a game that better suits their needs for negative attention. there has to be something out there for people like them. I know misery loves company.

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WC trolls. They come (probably the only time they do) they go, they self-destruct. They reincarnate. Repeat to fade. The single biggest crushing bores on 3DX, largely send for our amusement (laugh at not with). However....

 

... when they go too far, when they harass and abuse, screen grab them and report.

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Sometimes I try to picture the incredibly wrong turn they made that ended in them being in a sex game. I mean seriously, like you said they just hide in their rooms and rant and rave all day in world chat. Why here? Why a sex game? Most of the time they are harassing everyone, everything and all things sexual!!! What sense does that make??? Hello?! Seriously these people should quit and join a game that better suits their needs for negative attention. there has to be something out there for people like them. I know misery loves company.

 

Well if you think about it, it really makes sense.

 

These people have a particular personality type, that of sandpaper. With their real life options exhausted as far as sexual encounters go they headed for the new frontier with the easy pickings, they imagined, in a sex game where I'm sure they envisioned a vast sea of sexual prey far removed from reality and an orchard of sensual fruits to freely pick at their leisure and use when they wanted.

 

Well they failed to realize that each avi is an actual person, with their own reasons for playing, many to just enjoy social interactions and expand on being interactive with people from all over the world and turned off by rudeness, hate, indifference, jealousy, stupidity and a general suckness of character. <------ Scientific term.

 

The Social Reject though found it as tough as real life, the rejections began again and so the habitual reaction was to hide away and hate on the people and environment that their sandpapery personalities were the root cause.

 

You cant polish a turd my Grandad use to say and these dull turds gravitate to that dark damp cold place we call tha WC. Tha place needs warming up a little with a nice firebombing. :P

 

Of course this is all speculation yes pure propaganda I tellz ya, they are all warm loving peeps who just need our lovins, kiss kiss to tha SR's of 3DX.  <_<

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Well if you think about it, it really makes sense.

 

These people have a particular personality type, that of sandpaper. With their real life options exhausted as far as sexual encounters go they headed for the new frontier with the easy pickings, they imagined, in a sex game where I'm sure they envisioned a vast sea of sexual prey far removed from reality and an orchard of sensual fruits to freely pick at their leisure and use when they wanted.

 

Well they failed to realize that each avi is an actual person, with their own reasons for playing, many to just enjoy social interactions and expand on being interactive with people from all over the world and turned off by rudeness, hate, indifference, jealousy, stupidity and a general suckness of character. <------ Scientific term.

 

The Social Reject though found it as tough as real life, the rejections began again and so the habitual reaction was to hide away and hate on the people and environment that their sandpapery personalities were the root cause.

 

You cant polish a turd my Grandad use to say and these dull turds gravitate to that dark damp cold place we call tha WC. Tha place needs warming up a little with a nice firebombing. :P

 

Of course this is all speculation yes pure propaganda I tellz ya, they are all warm loving peeps who just need our lovins, kiss kiss to tha SR's of 3DX.  <_<

Makes perfect sense. Never thought of it that way, except for the fact they burned every bridge in real life being jerks so they have to pay somebody to listen to them here.

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OK I admit I love to watch it sometimes. Willing a good reply from people. Willing 'my' side to win. Often rooting for the underdog. I loved it when SB fought her corner on forums at times - just not the needless name calling or personal battles.

 

Personally I don't see them as losers and some are clearly clever people who hold good jobs. One only need look at comments on serious newspaper sites or the battles on twitter to realise that anybody can become a troll or abusive online. I've observed people who claim to be respectful fling insults around at people they deem a loser. Apparently insulting mentally disordered people is ok for them but not ok for others.

 

When I see the word 'reclaim' it sounds more like 'my friends only' or ' people I agree with'. I'll agree WC is not always pleasant though it can be. But at the same time it is the open chat of an adult sex game. Whilst you may see discussions on interest rate policy sometimes you more than likely won't and it comes with the territory.

 

I guess ultimately repeat offenders will be banned and there is that kind of catch all rule so they can ban people for pretty much anything - it's the one about 'harassment takes many forms.....' but WC will only ever be 'nice' if there is a monitor and who wants that?

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Putting them on ignore will only temporarily suppress the problem, until they created a new avatar that's not on your ignore list.

 

If you ignore one avatar, you ignore all the avatar of that account so it is pretty efficient even if the create a new one.

I guess (hope) the ignore remain active for the account after that they delete the avatar used for the original ignore, even if I cannot be sure.

 

About the general discussion :

Let's do simple. For me Ignoring people like this has very few disadvantage and a lot of advantage. So they feed my ignore list with not hesitation.

WC will never readable for an interesting conversation, but can help interest for newbye and some reasonnable event annoucement.

 

For making some chat more social and pleasant, let's try already to do this in a public room (Fresco, Sin ... ?), it seems to me a more realistic goal than WC.

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OK I admit I love to watch it sometimes. Willing a good reply from people. Willing 'my' side to win. Often rooting for the underdog. I loved it when SB fought her corner on forums at times - just not the needless name calling or personal battles.

 

Personally I don't see them as losers and some are clearly clever people who hold good jobs. One only need look at comments on serious newspaper sites or the battles on twitter to realise that anybody can become a troll or abusive online. I've observed people who claim to be respectful fling insults around at people they deem a loser. Apparently insulting mentally disordered people is ok for them but not ok for others.

 

When I see the word 'reclaim' it sounds more like 'my friends only' or ' people I agree with'. I'll agree WC is not always pleasant though it can be. But at the same time it is the open chat of an adult sex game. Whilst you may see discussions on interest rate policy sometimes you more than likely won't and it comes with the territory.

 

I guess ultimately repeat offenders will be banned and there is that kind of catch all rule so they can ban people for pretty much anything - it's the one about 'harassment takes many forms.....' but WC will only ever be 'nice' if there is a monitor and who wants that?

I am going to have to agree that the trolls in question are most likely "mentally disordered". I mean there is no other possible explanation to being that socially stunted as to just insult people and harass others all day long like some drunk on a bus.

 

I don't think the logic of taking back World Chat for 'just friends and selfish reasons' apply here either. It would be like saying taking back a country from its tyrannical  dictator is just some selfish and aimless ploy of the people they abuse. These are bad people who say really bad things to others, repeatedly. Maybe that's why sometimes people sling insults back at them in reply? Well what a shame that bad things would happen to bad people. Just a thought. So instead of all that, I am suggesting people just put them on ignore, quietly and peacefully, and we can all just forget that they ever existed.

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This is a call to everyone that may have already decided to avoid World Chat forever, or completely given up on it. It is a call for us to take our game back from a small group of people that have no purpose for being on this game except for rotting away on World Chat all day harassing and attacking people and giving the game of 3dx a bad name and ruining it for others.

 

 

It's simple, when you see these people, doing what they do, just put them on chat ignore. If enough people do this they will no longer have anyone to talk to except the 5 or 6 of them that call each other friends and we can take World Chat back and make it good again (if it ever was). I realize forums is completely infested with trolls and hateful, angry people. Almost all of them being the same people that are ruining World Chat, so I realize I will come under attack for this post by them and their small minded "friends" but it is ok, I am willing to make that sacrifice to make 3dx a better and safer place for people to enjoy.

 

Let them call me a man, let them call me someone else's alt. They resort to such verbal abuse often when they have nothing intelligent to say in response (which is just about always). I have really stopped caring what they think except for that to make them stop ruining the game for everyone that comes across World Chat.

 

You know who they are, they know who they are, and they know what they are doing. It's obvious and it's wrong. I hope you join me in making 3dx a better place for everyone here. Thanks.

I'd join you in your fight to help make 3DXChat a Safe Space playground for everyone, but I'm afraid I have a few things I'd like to point out for you, if you'll let me, about how championing this cause may backfire on you, or worse, lead to more harassment for you when you log back on to the game. Let's break everything you said down to a more rational and realistic level.

 

Mind you, this is just an opinion about what you said, and not solid proof fact. I need you to really understand this before you continue reading. If this were a personal attack on you, trust me, I'd eat you alive. But it's not, so please, read on with an open mind. And before you white knights jump on to defend her righteous cause, keep in mind that I'm only stating my opinion so that we can discuss this with the proper tone that it needs. This is of course, an internal conflict between a few players of the game and what it seems like, against BreeSummers.

 

"This is a call to everyone that may have already decided to avoid World Chat forever, or completely given up on it. It is a call for us to take our game back from a small group of people that have no purpose for being on this game except for rotting away on World Chat all day harassing and attacking people and giving the game of 3dx a bad name and ruining it for others."

 

It's commendable what you're asking for, a return back to how it was before when talking to people on World Chat. I agree with you, up to the point where I read this part:

 

"from a small group of people that have no purpose for being on this game except for rotting away on World Chat all day harassing and attacking people and giving the game of 3dx a bad name and ruining it for others."

 

I don't think it's fair to call those people the rot of World Chat. They have just as much a right to be on there as you, Bree. They, like you, paid for a service, and they are allowed to use that service, however they please. If someone went out and bought a bag of bread and decided to toss it into the trash after they bought it, that's their choice to make.

 

So much it is yours, not to go into World Chat and instigate your brand of mannerisms, too. There is no core group of individuals on here that have made this game theirs, by any means. I mean really, the way the game is now, who in their right mind would claim this game as theirs?

 

Fuck you too, Gizmo. Love you. ♥

 

"It's simple, when you see these people, doing what they do, just put them on chat ignore. If enough people do this they will no longer have anyone to talk to except the 5 or 6 of them that call each other friends and we can take World Chat back and make it good again (if it ever was). I realize forums is completely infested with trolls and hateful, angry people. Almost all of them being the same people that are ruining World Chat, so I realize I will come under attack for this post by them and their small minded "friends" but it is ok, I am willing to make that sacrifice to make 3dx a better and safer place for people to enjoy."

 

This troubled me a bit too. It almost sounded like you WANTED to come under attack for this, posting what you said. Even still, you insist on calling these "people" small minded. Not only them, but their friends. Now, how do you think that makes you look like, I gather?

 

Does it make you look like the champion everyone seeks to hold over their heads and carry you to victory? I don't think so.

Does it make you seem fair and just, creating this post for others who have been living under the oppression of these supposed "World Chat Few"? Maybe?

Does it make you look like a martyr, because you're willing to make the ultimate sacrifice in hiding these people away in your "Ignore Dungeon", forever? Yes.

 

"Let them call me a man, let them call me someone else's alt. They resort to such verbal abuse often when they have nothing intelligent to say in response (which is just about always). I have really stopped caring what they think except for that to make them stop ruining the game for everyone that comes across World Chat."

 

Now, this kind of thing you don't need to bring up unless you're afraid of someone finding out the complete opposite. If they call you a man or someone's alternate avatar, does that really matter so much in your venture here? It shouldn't.

 

But really, they're not ruining the game for anyone but you. But that's because you're letting them. And you have somewhat of an obsession about making World Chat a Safe Space for everyone when in reality, World Chat is nothing more than a mass-window gateway to locating if someone's on or, better still, if you'd like to meet people from another country. I imagine it's completely different for you and World Chat means something else entirely, but don't make any illusions about what it should be.

 

New players asking questions will have their answers when they find them. Some people in game will help out should they come across World Chat in some form or another, but we can't think of World Chat as the be all, end all place to find your answers.

 

Even you yourself have stated that you no longer care what they say, particularly about you. New gamers onboard will find out what to do without having to be spoonfed the entire game for them. They do of course, have a little over 30 days to find out about how to use the game, after all.

 

"You know who they are, they know who they are, and they know what they are doing. It's obvious and it's wrong. I hope you join me in making 3dx a better place for everyone here. Thanks."

 

I do know who they are. They know who the are and they know exactly well, what they're doing. Is it obvious? Sure. Is it wrong? That's a matter of perspective.

 

Will I join you in making 3dxChat a better place? I've been doing that for over a year now when I'm graciously given a chance to. Ask the huge amount of men who I've not only dedicated time to while I was on, but whom I've serviced with my imagination, compassion, thoughtfulness, kindness and selflessness.

 

Maybe instead of fighting the fight to close down a group of individuals who not only have every right to speak what they say on World Chat, maybe you should do your part and give of yourself to those in game who need someone to talk to, someone to feel good about when they log in, someone who listens, someone who understands that they find this game out of an unlikely chance, they can find a good person to talk to and enjoy some quality time with.

 

Maybe this shouldn't be about you. I'll join you in your efforts when you make it about everyone else instead of you. Then I know for sure, that your heart is in the right place, BreeSummers.

 

Put your heart where you mouth is.

 

I have, haven't I Gizmo, you son of a bitch! ♥ I'm just kidding, everyone knows I love him. (n^n) fucker. lol. where are meh updates!

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