ok, i got married today so this topic now directly affects me and now i have somethin to say about it.
i currently want to do three things and i cannot.
1. help my husband decorate our home.
we both decided we would move into one place together, his, and i would like to help him decorate it, i'm more experienced at it than he is and i want to contribute this talent to our marriage. in a RL situation like this i would be able to at least move a fricken chair to a better spot.
2. go to the radio and put on music.
i'm lyin with him on our bed and i can think of masses of stations i could put on to show him what is in my collection so we can share the experience but i can't. in a RL situation like this i would be able to get up and go put on music for him or change it.
3. be able to be there waitin for him when he gets home.
this is probably the most important one... having him "invite" me to our own home each and every day is gunna make me feel like we are still dating. i'm sure so many married people in the game want desperately to be able to be ready and waiting for their loved one at their shared home when they log-on to show how much they miss them.
i understood this thread before i was married, but now i totally get it.