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#1 shorty

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Posted 05 January 2017 - 03:56 PM

Hi all,

 

 

I've been searching for an answer to this question but can't seem to find an answer to it. If one is to get married, can you set your room up so your wife is the only person to have access to your rooms and if so, could you instruct me on how to set it up or a link to the information?

 

If there is no to way to set it for that, I think it should be added that since were married we can share our room with each other without being invited to it. Just might make the marriage of 2 people a little stronger. winks

 

 

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#2 Henkie

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Posted 05 January 2017 - 04:00 PM

Well. you can set your room to group only and have your wife in the group. But there's no way outside of that to have a private room without having to invite, suggestions like these are always good though ^^

 

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Posted 05 January 2017 - 04:09 PM

+1 to Shorty's suggestion.

 

Married couples should get the chance to share an apartment outside the group/friends option. a petal storm and a line in each others profile is definitely not enough.


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Posted 05 January 2017 - 04:31 PM

great suggestion.



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Posted 05 January 2017 - 04:42 PM

+1  :)

 

Yes both should have access to a specific marriage appartement even when the other is not online.

 

Both should be able to modify the appartment .. and so find reason to : prepare surprise, adjust according to his preference, disagree on change, fight, discuss, forgive with discussion, forgive with ........ well you know..... so live !


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#6 shorty

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Posted 05 January 2017 - 05:15 PM

Welllll,

 

I'm glad that I'm not the only one that would like that. Need to start adding a little more for married couples.  I can think of other things too add. Like a shower that i can share with my wife that i can wash her and whisper sweet things in her ears too. I also have this music stream that I really really like when I'm with her. Called Ravel Bolero. I would like to just paste the link and play it in my room when I make love too her smiile's. But I don't want to set a server up just to play that. Would be nice if somebody would add that to there list and send me a WORKING LINK so i can play it at special times blushing. Also there  is more to making love than just hoping on and off and leaving. I'm from the old school (age 71) winks

 

If you have never made love to that song, you should try it. Might be surprised what it adds to a good relationship.

 

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Posted 05 January 2017 - 05:31 PM

Pass... lol

what will he or she do when your not there.?

remember, its a two way street.... so if he/she decides to move your furniture around or delete stuff... live with it.

I'd rather have the developers work on inviting partners into my closet.... playing dress up is so much fun ;P


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#8 RobT

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Posted 05 January 2017 - 05:42 PM

Marriage was thrown in the game because people asked and prob saw it as a way to make more money. I cant see them recoding rooms to stay open etc.
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Posted 05 January 2017 - 05:52 PM

Marriage was thrown in the game because people asked and prob saw it as a way to make more money. I cant see them recoding rooms to stay open etc.

 

Aww Rob see this is why I can't marry you lol. Don't wanna share the home I made for you I see how you is :P


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#10 RobT

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Posted 05 January 2017 - 07:14 PM

My heart breaks over and over again :P

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Posted 05 January 2017 - 08:24 PM

Yeah, but who keeps the room when they divorce a week later?!?!?!?


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Posted 05 January 2017 - 08:45 PM

Yeah, but who keeps the room when they divorce a week later?!?!?!?


Marriage is the curse of 3dx...beware lol
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#13 Maxx

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Posted 05 January 2017 - 09:56 PM

Setting  a marriage permission, or setting a permission for anyone for that matter to have access or some special permission, shouldn't be difficult extra coding. RLC has a fantastic system developed 10 years ago that would be perfect here. Kick and banning from rooms should also be included. Why they never made it that you can't kick or ban an asshole from your own place is beyond me.

 

As for who owns it after  a divorce, that is simple. Whoever owned it before always owns it.


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#14 RobT

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Posted 05 January 2017 - 11:13 PM

Setting  a marriage permission, or setting a permission for anyone for that matter to have access or some special permission, shouldn't be difficult extra coding. RLC has a fantastic system developed 10 years ago that would be perfect here. Kick and banning from rooms should also be included. Why they never made it that you can't kick or ban an asshole from your own place is beyond me.

 

As for who owns it after  a divorce, that is simple. Whoever owned it before always owns it.

yes but they said leave rooms open even when someone isnt online. might even be a server hogging issue. i dont know enough about servers to answer that



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Posted 06 January 2017 - 11:34 AM

Shared room was proposed long time ago along with other nice ideas but well.. :) 


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Posted 08 January 2017 - 06:42 AM

Yeah, but who keeps the room when they divorce a week later?!?!?!?

 

 

The answer is obvious Amanda. A 3DX court is needed. Buy a lawyer for 10,000 xgold. The winner takes the room. Appeals cost an addition 10,000 xgold.

 

For a judge? RobT.

 

 

 

 

 

(p.s. I am joking ;) )


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#17 RobT

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Posted 08 January 2017 - 12:46 PM

The answer is obvious Amanda. A 3DX court is needed. Buy a lawyer for 10,000 xgold. The winner takes the room. Appeals cost an addition 10,000 xgold.

 

For a judge? RobT.

 

 

 

 

 

(p.s. I am joking ;) )

I like this Mulan person, She is wise beyond her years



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Posted 08 January 2017 - 01:03 PM

Yeah there should totally be a Judge Judy type room - guaranteed to be busier than sex in public restrooms. It would be A May Zing. I'd just sit there listening to all the sordid tales, and replying to pm's with "sorry, busy".


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#19 Rockster

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Posted 10 January 2017 - 09:05 PM

ok, i got married today so this topic now directly affects me and now i have somethin to say about it.

 

i currently want to do three things and i cannot.

 

1. help my husband decorate our home.

 

we both decided we would move into one place together, his, and i would like to help him decorate it, i'm more experienced at it than he is and i want to contribute this talent to our marriage. in a RL situation like this i would be able to at least move a fricken chair to a better spot.

 

2. go to the radio and put on music.

 

i'm lyin with him on our bed and i can think of masses of stations i could put on to show him what is in my collection so we can share the experience but i can't. in a RL situation like this i would be able to get up and go put on music for him or change it.

 

3. be able to be there waitin for him when he gets home.

 

this is probably the most important one... having him "invite" me to our own home each and every day is gunna make me feel like we are still dating. i'm sure so many married people in the game want desperately to be able to be ready and waiting for their loved one at their shared home when they log-on to show how much they miss them.

 

i understood this thread before i was married, but now i totally get it.

 

FIX please.


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