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#21 DarrenD

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Posted 02 March 2017 - 01:48 PM

Funny that this pops up again after such a long time :)

 

But to answer your questions, yes, we had a couple of talks about the game and our sex life in general. One evening I even showed my better half around the game, but as she is not really into video games in general, she was on one hand fascinated about the mmog adult character of the game (and the number of ppl playing it), but at the other hand it seemed weird to her that pixel sex could be something grown ups would find "hot".

 

The best thing however is that we talked about it, that we were honest about our relationship and about the kind of sex we have and want to have.

 

So yes, all worked out well for both of us and I'm still here, really enjoying the game, with my significant other now knowing that I play it.


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Posted 02 March 2017 - 01:51 PM

That's amazing news. :D



#23 Domonique

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Posted 02 March 2017 - 02:31 PM

It's awesome to hear DarrenD :3 glad it all worked out for you!



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Posted 28 April 2017 - 11:29 AM

When I became member, I had no idea what this game was going to do with me.
It's just a game I thought !
Probably it sounds crazy but I have I have to confess something:
I'm a girl, 23 years old and when I play, it's a fact that I'm trying to give myself all the way and imagine that I'm being there. This game gives me then the feeling that it's so real, that I really have sex with somebody ! It turns me on, it makes me real horny; never thought this could happen with a game.


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Posted 28 April 2017 - 02:00 PM

When I became member, I had no idea what this game was going to do with me.
It's just a game I thought !
Probably it sounds crazy but I have I have to confess something:
I'm a girl, 23 years old and when I play, it's a fact that I'm trying to give myself all the way and imagine that I'm being there. This game gives me then the feeling that it's so real, that I really have sex with somebody ! It turns me on, it makes me real horny; never thought this could happen with a game.

Like that story Vayen ... pretty much what I've been experiencing, too. You arrive here, thinking it's "only a game", play for some time and begin to literally "feel" the game.

 

You make and meet friends, eventually, no matter if you want it to happen or not, you fall in love with someone. You get hurt, you hurt ... you are sad. Until you meet someone who brightens up your day again ... and all that from a "game only" :D

 

Occasionally, like now with me, it's also good thing to take a little break from game, because it can get "too real" as well :)


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#26 Vayen

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Posted 28 April 2017 - 03:01 PM

Like that story Vayen ... pretty much what I've been experiencing, too. You arrive here, thinking it's "only a game", play for some time and begin to literally "feel" the game.

 

You make and meet friends, eventually, no matter if you want it to happen or not, you fall in love with someone. You get hurt, you hurt ... you are sad. Until you meet someone who brightens up your day again ... and all that from a "game only" :D

 

Occasionally, like now with me, it's also good thing to take a little break from game, because it can get "too real" as well :)

Oh yes Darren, you are absolutely right, most of the time it is 'too real', but it makes me happy you know, to be in an another world, to have fun, to dance, have friends, have sex.
I know what you mean, sure, there is a danger, but I also realize that when I push 'Exit Game' I'm back in reality.


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#27 chloe

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Posted 04 May 2017 - 07:33 AM

Oh yes Darren, you are absolutely right, most of the time it is 'too real', but it makes me happy you know, to be in an another world, to have fun, to dance, have friends, have sex.
I know what you mean, sure, there is a danger, but I also realize that when I push 'Exit Game' I'm back in reality.

 

 

You can loose yourself in reality too. Both worlds are not that different at all. For example the RL is full of fakes too :) 


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Posted 04 May 2017 - 10:28 AM

I RAGE AGAINST REALITY when I have to leave 3DX...back to the real world with all its drama



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Posted 04 May 2017 - 11:08 PM

This topic could reveal my entire life story, at least the virtual one. I started using the virtual sexual world do to a very unfulfilling sex life with my husband, but I never considered this to be cheating, and I always tried to make it a point that I was doing this for fun, and not intending any commitments or relationships. Still, I somehow manage to find people who want to be more than just NSA sex, and try to push themselves onto me. Virtual sex allows me to try secret and extreme fantasies that I dare not try in the real world, but the only relationships I seek to be involved in, are those of good friends. My aol chat rooms, imvu, and 3DX life are completely separate from my real life.


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Posted 04 May 2017 - 11:56 PM

I have better orgasms (Yes..I masturbate most the time in RL while in 3DX...so shoot me)  in 3DX than in real life because of the lack of drama and the zero chance of disease. No "When will I see you again", "I saw you with another girl and it hurt". Its better than lesbian porn because you are having interaction with the person you having virtual sex with. I have my favourite girls that turn me on big time. They are just avatars but I still have a connection. If I knew them in RL it would probably feel a real different feeling in 3DX, it would not be as enjoyable.

 

So yes, it does effect my real life, I like 3DX much better than reality. Reality has war, terrorism, asinine people threatening nuclear war, asshole men always bothering you (In 3DX I can make them go away forever).

 

<3 3DX..


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#31 DarrenD

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Posted 08 May 2017 - 09:44 AM

Many months have passed now since I posted this and I thought I should give a little update on the status quo.

 

First of all, the game has influenced my "real" life in many ways, the most important certainly my partner and me talking about our sex life much more than before. And I can say that it not only ended with talking, our sex life has improved since :D 3dx served as a trigger for all that (and those wonderful responses I got to my OP) and that alone is a very very good thing.

 

I can only recommend this to others as well, talk to your partners about you playing 3dxchat (and alike). If you really care for each other, chances are high that this will make things better for your relationship.

 

Other than that, in terms of real life effects, I did some pretty funny things out-of-game with people I met in game. Sometimes not very beneficial to my work productivity, but hey, you only life once :)

 

Right now, for many reasons, I'm less active in game, and instead cultivate my old tumblr passion, doing mostly text based role plays there (yes, that can be a hell of fun, too!!)


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#32 chloe

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Posted 12 May 2017 - 07:09 AM

Funny that this pops up again after such a long time :)

 

The internet never forget ^^ 




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