NotSayingMyName Posted October 29, 2016 Share Posted October 29, 2016 Now I'm afraid to go to any cold rooms in fear of finding her with another guy. I can tell it would make me upset. Why am I so stupid!? Who gets attached in a sex game! Ughhh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Briana Posted October 29, 2016 Share Posted October 29, 2016 Omg...no you're not stupid, It may happen to anyone. Stéphane and NotSayingMyName 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tipsy Posted October 29, 2016 Share Posted October 29, 2016 Hello again " Cumprovider ". To answer your questions, Im not sure HOW stupid you are or WHY. since i luckily dont know you well enough. Some would say " take a IQ test ", but i value social intelligence higher and well... shouldnt send goats into a horserace. Maybe watching her make love to others can be your new kink, change your name to " Cuckprovider ". If i wasnt beeing sarcastic to a troll i would say, block her, nothing to worry about, clean break, move on. LordAlexHawke and AnyNameWillDo 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wolvie44 Posted October 29, 2016 Share Posted October 29, 2016 same thing happened to me but we decided to still be friends which was better we run into one another now and then but we say hi and chat for a bit then go our separate ways saying see you later this worked out for us cause she was honest with me up front and said it wasnt working between us i was feeling the same way too but im too busy making new friends and having fun to think about the past. NotSayingMyName and Briana 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Briana Posted October 29, 2016 Share Posted October 29, 2016 Oh! Finally Tipsy find your name! How come? ha okay, she got an IQ HIGHER of 200 probably. Better never try to hide up of her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oshun Posted October 29, 2016 Share Posted October 29, 2016 It happens, you're not the only one that happens to. Block if you can't stop thinking about that person or become jealous. It's for your own well being. Or, eventually you could become an asshole stalker in a sex game, and you'll be blocked. It is a game yes, but, every character is controlled by a person. If you're using the game purely as a masturbatory aid, no problem in keeping feelings out of the game. If you're also using it to make some good friends as well. Your feelings may get mixed in. Something that struck me is when you wrote, "I'm afraid to go to any cold rooms..." you met this person in a cold room >.> ...I don't even go to cold rooms when I want to masturbate :/ Pay closer attention to who you get involved with; think. Pierrousss, NotSayingMyName and OliU 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnyNameWillDo Posted October 29, 2016 Share Posted October 29, 2016 Shouldn't send a goat to a horse race? Very true, Tipsy. Nor a bunny rabbit, either, I might add... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest SherryS Posted October 29, 2016 Share Posted October 29, 2016 Yeah I would suggest a big juicy steak and yeah whining, and clingy is annoying, what would I know about that you ask? well I don't really know anything. But you can love and you can LOVE, I can generally love most anyone but when someone is just constantly wanting my time I just want to say.. I am busy even when I'm not, I'm just weird like that though. disclaimer : This is a joke and I do not in no way shape or form do women. I just do me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AHT Posted October 29, 2016 Share Posted October 29, 2016 You're not stupid Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest beccie Posted October 29, 2016 Share Posted October 29, 2016 EDIT: I have deleted my lengthy sermon. Ok so I misunderstood the OPs situation. Lol. Damn my finger hurts now. Never typed so much on a phone before :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TashaTight Posted October 29, 2016 Share Posted October 29, 2016 So You're afraid to go to any cold rooms, in fear of finding her with another guy. Kinda makes me wonder why you would go to a cold room in first place? Collete and Erynn 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NotSayingMyName Posted October 29, 2016 Author Share Posted October 29, 2016 So You're afraid to go to any cold rooms, in fear of finding her with another guy. Kinda makes me wonder why you would go to a cold room in first place? None of us are committed or exclusive to one another, she doesn't even know how attached I'm, I play along like I'm cool with her having fun with others because I don't want to ruin what we have, doesn't change the fact that it will upset me to see her with someone else. Btw, I have a habit of jumping from rooms to rooms, I don't really do cold anymore, especially after I started hanging out with her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest beccie Posted October 29, 2016 Share Posted October 29, 2016 None of us are committed or exclusive to one another, she doesn't even know how attached I'm, I play along like I'm cool with her having fun with others because I don't want to ruin what we have, doesn't change the fact that it will upset me to see her with someone else. Btw, I have a habit of jumping from rooms to rooms, I don't really do cold anymore, especially after I started hanging out with her.So, just so I understand - she told you she was with someone already - and you understood that. So how important is this friendship - and are you going to let this situation get in the way of that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweethoney Posted October 29, 2016 Share Posted October 29, 2016 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest RomanFox Posted October 29, 2016 Share Posted October 29, 2016 Hey, I'm sorry to hear you have to go through this type of situation... I think a lot of us have been there and it's not an easy thing to deal with. It's actually pretty easy to get attached to someone in a game that is based around intimacy, like this one. Unfortunately, I also agree with the fact that it's a dangerous game to let yourself get attached easily. See, you have to take in consideration that a lot of the women aren't really women... and when you find yourself lucky to find one, there's a bunch of other things that could potentially prevent you from taking things further... As a person to have been on both sides, I can only advise that you take the time to really consider what it is you're looking for in this game, make that clear to your partner and see what he/she has to say about it, keeping in mind that sometimes it won't be the thing you wish to hear. Before I met Domonique, who's now also my real life girlfriend, I was in a spot where I decided to no longer search attachment, just go with the flow and enjoy the game for what it is... Although I knew it was going to be a difficult task, considering my nature.. but I knew it had to be done. She finally broke through that barrier, and I can honestly say I couldn't be happier about it. Cases like this, however, are rare... If you ever need a talk, feel free to hit me up and maybe I can share some of the experiences (both bad and good) in an attempt to help you figure things out I wish you the best of luck! Domonique, Briana, NotSayingMyName and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Briana Posted October 30, 2016 Share Posted October 30, 2016 None of us are committed or exclusive to one another, she doesn't even know how attached I'm, I play along like I'm cool with her having fun with others because I don't want to ruin what we have, doesn't change the fact that it will upset me to see her with someone else. Btw, I have a habit of jumping from rooms to rooms, I don't really do cold anymore, especially after I started hanging out with her.Hopefuly you never met a roleplayer as i , you remind me it's sometime hard to play as it ,I think it's the worst way to play for those wishing to be trusted and trying to have a close relation to finally get attached to someone in this game. I lost many friends for this reason and now I play the game just for having fun and changing from rl routine, attachment to someone is now over for me. cause I'm a role player and considerated as a fake one in here. Why loosing my time to have a close relation with someone i will gonna hurt by the way i play anyway? Did you ever ask her what kind of player she is? idk how far you went with. deep relation with lot of good feelings? I suggest you to ask her and be honest to is respond to you.By her answer, you will probably understand in what kind of relation you've being introduced in. After , you will be ready for a new start with someone else. idk. depend of how strong you are to live with that. btw, I also been attached to someone in the past cause we both had many things in common, but unfortunately, it turned in drama shit cuz of my roleplay and my lack of honesty about my real life identity with some ppl's I've introduced in my ''roleplay'' at the begining. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Domino Posted November 1, 2016 Share Posted November 1, 2016 Umm what's a cold room? Can you put on a jacket???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freya Posted November 1, 2016 Share Posted November 1, 2016 Now I'm afraid to go to any cold rooms in fear of finding her with another guy. I can tell it would make me upset. Why am I so stupid!? Who gets attached in a sex game! Ughhh Experiences are invaluable. Learn from them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrblond Posted November 3, 2016 Share Posted November 3, 2016 Its all nature. Male sees woman, male wishes to breed woman, male does not wish others to breed woman. When you play a game like this its sometimes hard not to let emotions get involved. Freya 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KittyCaitlin Posted November 3, 2016 Share Posted November 3, 2016 what would OJ Simpson do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrblond Posted November 4, 2016 Share Posted November 4, 2016 what would OJ Simpson do?with a knife? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KittyCaitlin Posted November 4, 2016 Share Posted November 4, 2016 In the library Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nicci Posted November 5, 2016 Share Posted November 5, 2016 Hey, I'm sorry to hear you have to go through this type of situation... I think a lot of us have been there and it's not an easy thing to deal with. It's actually pretty easy to get attached to someone in a game that is based around intimacy, like this one. Unfortunately, I also agree with the fact that it's a dangerous game to let yourself get attached easily. See, you have to take in consideration that a lot of the women aren't really women... and when you find yourself lucky to find one, there's a bunch of other things that could potentially prevent you from taking things further... As a person to have been on both sides, I can only advise that you take the time to really consider what it is you're looking for in this game, make that clear to your partner and see what he/she has to say about it, keeping in mind that sometimes it won't be the thing you wish to hear. Before I met Domonique, who's now also my real life girlfriend, I was in a spot where I decided to no longer search attachment, just go with the flow and enjoy the game for what it is... Although I knew it was going to be a difficult task, considering my nature.. but I knew it had to be done. She finally broke through that barrier, and I can honestly say I couldn't be happier about it. Cases like this, however, are rare... If you ever need a talk, feel free to hit me up and maybe I can share some of the experiences (both bad and good) in an attempt to help you figure things out I wish you the best of luck!Well said Roman Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nlilith Posted November 19, 2016 Share Posted November 19, 2016 Such thing as a cyber heart does not exist. Behind all avatars are real people, there are countless of social studies which show that people >do not< differ online harassment,... from real life harassment,...their feelings are the same, so this whole cyber thing, is by far not so innocent as some think, believe or claim. This is not an opinion, but a fact, we cannot debate this. So yes, you can experience here an heartbreak, which will be >real< and you are not stupid at all. The majority of the people here or in any other social game... experience real emotions, feelings,.. there gives no cyber emotions,.. Especially if you mix intimacy with good conversation,...you can quickly find yourself in unwanted situations. People who are using this game just for mastrubation, colds,... are in a much better position in terms of fast fun, even though they can get quickly bored,...Personally I do like good conversations, which also means that things can get fast in the direction for which you did not come here. Probably is the best way to avoid heartbreaks,... to make clear in your profile, to people with whom you are in contact,...why are you here,.. in the first place. In your situation, it is obvious that you don't even know for what this girl is here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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