CumProvider Posted October 22, 2016 Share Posted October 22, 2016 What to do when you're friends with someone and they text you often but you don't want to talk to them? Unfriending them would be rude. I don't want to be rude. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Panthea Posted October 22, 2016 Share Posted October 22, 2016 Well if you dont want to be rude by unfriending them you could always try and tell them how things are and you just dont want to talk with them right now or well if its more like you really dont want to talk with them then its like no use to even be friends, i know its rude but that will kinda be the way out of it. Know alot with people that just text you when you dont want to like talk to them and sometimes i just look like i'm AFK by not responding to those who i dont want to talk with, and if they dont stop i ask them to either stop and stuff like that Shanti, FairyDust and Stéphane 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shanti Posted October 22, 2016 Share Posted October 22, 2016 Lol.. I hope you have a different name in game, because finding out on forum that you are looking for ways to avoid them is even more rude. But yeah... Like Panthea says, if you can't talk at that moment, it's best to let them know that you can't talk. People are usually pretty understanting. FrenchKiss, FairyDust, RedJewel and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tipsy Posted October 22, 2016 Share Posted October 22, 2016 If its easy to get on a friendlist, why be surprised if youre easily removed from it ? AnyNameWillDo and FairyDust 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnyNameWillDo Posted October 22, 2016 Share Posted October 22, 2016 Or start a conversation about post-modernist conceptual art in the context of the dawn of the new cold war. Works a treat for me... FairyDust, FrenchKiss and Stéphane 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AmberS Posted October 22, 2016 Share Posted October 22, 2016 The fact that you don't want to talk with them anymore is already somehow rude for them, so... I think most of the people tend to ignore someone, which is definitely not the best option. I would just try to explain politely what are the reasons and who knows, maybe they change and you'll want to talk to them again FairyDust 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AHT Posted October 22, 2016 Share Posted October 22, 2016 The reason it takes weeks to get on my fl Sage Stoner and sweethoney 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wolvie44 Posted October 22, 2016 Share Posted October 22, 2016 me im honest with the person and tell them i dont wanna talk no more with you and i would tell them why, its better to be honest with them and yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FrenchKiss Posted October 22, 2016 Share Posted October 22, 2016 Okay, well... Let's assume if we're here, we're all grown ups, right ? Aaaaand let's assume as grown up human beings we can talk with fellow beings (Even though I'm an elf and definitely young for an elf, I include myself in that) *nods nods* I still got you ? Fine, then mebee.... Talk to the one and explain him/her. Don't be rude and just say things how they are, if it's a friend, then he/she will understand and make things go on the right path. If not... You can still delete friend or ignore. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- This content has been provided under control of the Elven Elder Council after a debate for three long decades and approved by the supreme court on the 153th vote. Enjoy it wolvie44 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amberhawk Posted October 22, 2016 Share Posted October 22, 2016 One of the things I learned a long time ago on these forums and online chat programs is that though people are quite friendly, and we are able to "friend" them in program, they are only acquaintances until you know stuff about each other, real stuff. That means talking, telling them when you need space or letting them know you are not a highly chatty person in the first place are all respectable things to do. Tell them. If they keep bugging you then remove them. They are not really right for you anyway friend wise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AHT Posted October 23, 2016 Share Posted October 23, 2016 The words "sorry, bit busy at the moment" work well. Always be polite! FairyDust 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tipsy Posted October 23, 2016 Share Posted October 23, 2016 The reason it takes weeks to get on my fl Then why does it just take seconds to get in your panties ? FairyDust 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FairyDust Posted October 23, 2016 Share Posted October 23, 2016 interactions with people here isn't too different than in real life. let common sense and good manners be your guide. AnyNameWillDo and Tipsy 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Doll Posted October 23, 2016 Share Posted October 23, 2016 Since I epically fail to multitask...(which is mostly a myth anyway btw )...I could never manage to talk properly to more than one person in game at a time. At best I'd just seem like I wasn't paying attention to anyone lol...so...I'd just say..."sorry I'm with just chatting with my friend/whatevs...chat later?" Like pretty much everyone here has said...just act like it's a real person you're talking to...because um...it is lol. AnyNameWillDo 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChiK73 Posted October 23, 2016 Share Posted October 23, 2016 If someone texts me here, I try to answer and carry on a conversation. Quite often, I end up with numerous text boxes open, and I try to talk to everybody, but some people get impatient, or even mad that I dare to speak to someone else at the same time as them. Then the rapid fire "Why aren't you answering me, its been over 30 seconds" rants, that make me often just close the box and ignore their replies. I do find, with most of my good friends on here, that if I tell them I'm working on room, or involved in a role-play, they understand. Honesty and straight forwardness work for real friends, those who get mad, probably aren't so much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChiK73 Posted October 24, 2016 Share Posted October 24, 2016 you talking about me again You know you're one of the reasonable ones, even if you don't want to admit it!!!! All rivalries and bickering aside, you're a good guy, Rob. RobT 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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