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TomaHawk

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OK...I'm the type of person that sometimes sits in the corner and reads profiles and checks out pictures...now that being said, I've noticed some Male members posting pictures of their "male member" in their gallery, now before we all jump on the what's wrong with that wagon, I want to say that you are free to post what ever you want in your profile, I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that, I mean plenty of women here post pics of their parts in their galleries too (love looking at those...lol). What I would like to know is the thoughts that crosses the female mind when they see this, does that matter to you? or do you just roll your eyes think "idiot" and move on? And what if the guy says hello and asks you if you like what you see?

 

So please all of you lovely ladies of this community feel free to express your thoughts on that.

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Most of the time I eyeroll & laugh, wondering which website it came from lol... it's pretty funny ^^

 

 

 

It feels like when you send a resume for a job application... and put a dick pic instead of face...

I don't know about others, but someone that just showcases his parts to everyone is a big turn off, if they don't care who sees it, means they probably don't care if it's you or anyone else. And that applies here or anywhere else.

 

But I guess it's fine for those seeking the sexual aspect only of the game, and I'm pretty sure for many of those it can be a turn off too...

It's like christmas.. where's the fun in having a gift that you can't unwrap lol :lol:

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HAHAHAHAHAH!!! aaayy tenias que ser TU!!!... :P 

 

Well my dear Friend Toma... yes i had saw those profiles too.. and some of the guys who have those kind of pictures even "ask me" an opinion.. (maybe to force me to take a look at their profiles... or at the "cocks" they have in their galleries... :lol:)... I'm quite openminded tho

 

To me in personal wont bother me at all.. but as the nature of this place is... i never "belive" those are their real parts... ;) but if they are.. "congrats everyone are GIFTED HERE!!!... :P  

 

Is kinda funny what some guys try to do by approaching to us and just send a "wink".. pretending that with a look at those pictures we all are gonna "fall in love and become eager and exited" to be with them just with a picture... hehehe

 

so nooo it wont makes me angry or think any negative thing... is just funny...  :) 

 

when are you gonna post yours?... LOL

 

Kisses 4U Toma...

And kisses 4 everyone

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But I guess it's fine for those seeking the sexual aspect only of the game, and I'm pretty sure for many of those it can be a turn off too...

It's like christmas.. where's the fun in having a gift that you can't unwrap lol :lol:

 

that comment realy make me laught :lol:, that prety much exactly that ^^

 

all those that know me know that i'm part of this side ^^, i'm here for the sexual aspect of the game, and i can say that that sort of picture i will just :rolleyes: on it, borringly, that not something that will hit me.

 

when someone accost me with that, i will rebound on it and play in this direction..., but that just playing..., to see "what next he have to offer", i will not get horny because of that :rolleyes:, words excite me way more.

 

after, all that is just my personal opinion, i'm sure some will like and be exited by that sort of picture, we have all sort of ppl here ^^

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I dont mind it,  I enjoy perusing profiles and seeing what people post.  Naked guys,  naked women,  naked hentai,  random art,  random sayings.  I like seeing what people choose to put in their galleries. 

 

Playing "is that real or stolen?"  is always fun.

 

What bothers me is when someone pesters you to look at their gallery.

"Did you check me out?"

"like what you see?"

"Does it turn you on?" 

 

Its obnoxious. 

Big dick,  little dick,  need more than a pic to get worked up. 

See one dick,  seen them all. 

Unless its uncircumsized. 

Thats just a whole different thing. 

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I personally am not interested in those kinds of pics, although I do get the guys who pester me to look and give my opinion, which I generally just say, Oh, that's nice, or something polite. Real life pictures is not what I'm here for, anyways, and, for that matter,  you never know if it's real or fake. I'm more interested in how well you use it, than how big it appears to be. Honestly, from the size of some of the pictures a lot of guys post, I wouldn't actually let that inside of me, so keep that in mind, also, guys. :wub: 

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Okay i wont lie. Most of the time a guy with dick pics will get a giggle an a move on from me. Having said that if i dont motice right away or someone approches me in another way i wont not chat because of it. Creativity or even kindness with or without dick pics wins over rude and pushy any day.

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  lol I usually just do that and wipe it from my memory haha but in all seriousness. If I see that in their profile its a huge turn off for me and I can't take this person seriously. First Impressions are huge... haha not talking about your dick :P lol so ya I'd recommend to keep it out of your profile. Play as you like but understand that's the reaction you will usually get  ;)

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Ok... don't know if I should be replying to this or not.... do to the fact that I have some meat between my legs too... So, here is my 2 cents.... I'm in both camps here... If I look at someone profile and that's all they have is pic's of their cock, most of the time it's a turn off... I also, find that the ones that have cock pic's tend to be ass holes... And I'm also going to think it's fake if it huge... I played sports and showered with a lot of men (please no jokes, and yes I looked) and I have only seen a small number of what I would call large cocks and only one truly huge cock in all that time... On the other hand... Girls, I don't know about you... but... small or large... I have seen some truly sexy looking cocks that scream suck me as soon as I look at them... So... I'm a bit mixed on what I think here...

 

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OK...I'm the type of person that sometimes sits in the corner and reads profiles and checks out pictures...now that being said, I've noticed some Male members posting pictures of their "male member" in their gallery, now before we all jump on the what's wrong with that wagon, I want to say that you are free to post what ever you want in your profile, I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that, I mean plenty of women here post pics of their parts in their galleries too (love looking at those...lol). What I would like to know is the thoughts that crosses the female mind when they see this, does that matter to you? or do you just roll your eyes think "idiot" and move on? And what if the guy says hello and asks you if you like what you see?

 

So please all of you lovely ladies of this community feel free to express your thoughts on that.

nice question :D  at first i think its up to your self, if you want show all what you have why not. (if it looks good :D  :D  :D ) for me i dont take a special notice about because i  have seen so many in thies game. But if i was a man i dont would do such a pic as the front, you dont go out in a club or caffee pull your friend out and say " hallo my name is" ;)  :P

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I like to look at profiles as well. If you get upset about seeing male or female body parts (real, fake, cartoon) in a profile for a sex game then clearly you are in the wrong game. When I see it I find it quite funny and usually a good indicator that this is not probably the person I want to get to know, which maybe a bit close minded on my part but that is my initial perception. There are people who do like that sort of thing in game and fair play to them, this game is what you make it. Some people are looking for real life love, others look for friendship, others look for escape and some just come for a quick fuck. All of which are perfectly acceptable reasons to come to 3DX.

 

I don't think we should ever pre-judge someone though. The fact is though, we all do it because we are all human and I admit to doing it myself. That one person who has the dick pics or pussy pics may actually turn out to be really nice, although they are doing themselves a disservice if they want some serious conversation. As an old friend in 3DX once said "never assume". However as we get older experiences teach us things that cloud our judgement without the willingness to take risks and talk to people we wouldn't usually talk to like we may have done inquisitively when we were young.

 

People may get upset that people do not show truthful depictions of themselves, but why should they? If people want to come here for fantasy then don't take that away from them. Having said that if you are getting more serious with someone then it is nice to be honest about things, but that is never a given and you can never be sure until you meet that person. The best thing to do is just live for the moment and be happy, because if you are constantly looking for real life love or out to prove someone is fake then you will never be happy.

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As Malvasiah said, it's a turnoff not because of the pic itself (penis is just a part of human male body, it's natural, so nothing is wrong with it), but because being a clear sign of the person's plain and simple mindset. Usually it comes with fixation on the size of penis and other porn stereotypes, with all the weird ideas about sexuality that porn industry cultivates. In most cases, men with such avatar pics are boring and stupid. Of course, there're always some exceptions, but will you want to dig through the heap of garbage to find one?

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For me it depends on my mood but majority of the time its a turnoff and those guys that have those pics do seem to be assholes. A lot of the time I'm like "Oh god why would you put that horrible pic up" due to it being just a bad pic and or stuff in the back ground. The times I do like them is either when they make me laugh and I tell my guy friend omg look at so and so's gallery just to fuck with them and get them to look at another dudes dick or I'm really horny and the pic was a good pic then I'll pm them letting them know that cock pic is nice looking. Sometimes a nice looking cock does it for me but I'm sure when I see those I've already been worked up and that pic made me go Mmmm.

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Whenever I'm approached by an individual who has pictures of dicks in their profile, I sit and think to myself first before passing any kind of judgement, because in all honesty, in the type of game I'm playing, should there be any passing of judgement at all?

 

If the pictures are real, if the dick is attached to the actual individual playing in game, I have to compliment their courage. It takes an INCREDIBLE amount of balls, pun intended, to put yourself out there so exposed, and I respect that. It's sexy as hell too, because if I need any kind of visual reference to what's inside of me while we cybersex together, thank you for the image, honey. Stories are nice don't get me wrong, but it's nice to have something to look at while we imagine.

 

Now, if the image is clearly fake, I can't laugh or giggle at it, much less call them out on it. It's their imagination at play and nothing more. Why should I be a bitch and make them feel bad? Maybe they want to imagine being a big black cock. Maybe they want to post pictures of themselves online, but are extremely afraid to because of the "little girl ridicule social circles" that exist in game? Maybe they feel a certain way, and have found a picture online that expresses how sexy they feel?

 

Could not the same, everything mentioned above, be applied to us women when we post pictures, too? Food for thought.

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So, according to all the replies, I'm the only red blooded woman on here who loves lookin' at dick pics? lol  Oh lawdy lawdz, save me from the dick.

 

I'm just kidding around, don't go getting offended. Different strokes for different folks.

 

*cough, cough* I'll stroke yours if you know what I'm sayin', fellas. Dont'chu worry 'bout that-- Paula's here to play.  ♥ (^ .^) ♥ *cough, cough*  :D

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For the most part for me it's a turn off.

 

Based on the experiences I have had when I have been shown pictures like this in game the working assumption seems to be that on being shown a picture of a ' beautiful' dick I will be overcome with lust and go into some kind of swoon, out of which I can only be rescued by riotous sex with the owner of the previously mentioned 'beautiful' dick.

 

Well I hate to break it to you guys but it doesn't work like that. If the sum total of your intimate conversation is the occasional 'mmmmm' then a 100 pictures of your ( or anyone else's ) dick is simply not going to matter.

 

What matters is how I'm made to feel and that's a function of your conversation primarily but also your ideas, thoughts and ability to connect with me. Now before anyone thinks I'm looking for people with degrees in the English language, this is not about the standard of your language or about the size of your vocabulary...I have had many a delicious tryst with people who's command of English is very poor....it's about saying the right thing at the right time and connecting with me.( I hope that makes sense). These pictures are a lot less important than some guys seem to think

 

So to get back to the original question: if I come across a picture while looking at a profile then I usually chuckle and move on, quickly forgotten.. If I'm pointed at a picture as a means of 'breaking the ice' then this guy seems to be in love with his own genetalia and that's quite negative for me. Not so quickly forgotten but not positive. Only on one occasion have I seen such a picture used in a sensual manner during an encounter.....that was quite hot. ( and that's the reason I say ' for the most part' and not ' always')

 

I don't have an issue with the pictures per say and people can put up pretty much what ever they want as far as I am concerned, but a picture of a dick will not immediately get me going and if the truth be known I'd rather see a picture of the guys chest, ;)

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