Kinks with Friends

[Tiptoe]

Heya all,

 

Just thought I'd share another sexy social game to try that a few of us have been playing off and on (and refining as we go) to add into the mix with the 'Truth or Dare' and 'I Never' and similar type games we all enjoy here. I think it is a pretty simple game overall, runs along at a decent pace and is intended to be another way to learn more about your friends, playmates, prospective lovers in a casual, sometimes silly, fun-oriented way.

 

I would suggest four to six players would be best, though a little more could work too. I'd also suggest getting everyone that wants to play or listen in on group chat so that you're not spamming the heck out of where ever you're hanging out and also just to avoid a lot of confusion with non-players chiming in, wanting to join late, etc. You'll also want to have everyone playing gathered in the same place, sitting in, more or less, a circle. We've played crowded into a booth in the NC, sitting around a campfire on the Love Island beach, hanging out within people's apartments and similar. Finally, I would suggest trying to keep all 'turns' to about one to maybe two minutes so the game moves along at a good pace.

 

So...Kinks with Friends:

 

 

Once you've got everyone gathered and ready to play, someone has to start the fun. Pick who that is and then they'll share a kink they enjoy. Can be anything, just something they enjoy. Public sex, pretty feet, rough foreplay, using fruit and vegetables in naughty ways...whatever floats their boat.

 

Now moving clockwise around the circle, each player has the option to respond or pass. Most will respond with what they think of the shared kink, what they would do to enjoy that kink, either to someone else or themselves, and they can be as elaborate as they like. Just try to respond within a minute or two. Some will choose to pass if they can't think of anything, aren't up to sharing or just aren't interested in the kink.

 

Once you've gotten around the circle and everyone has responded or passed, the one who first shared the kink will pick their favorite response. That person will get one point. Everyone besides the one picked and the one who shared will lose one piece of clothing. Those who passed will not lose a clothing item, but they also cannot get a point.

 

Then, again moving clockwise, the next person in the circle will share a kink that they like and the process will repeat, again moving around the circle. Once a player runs out of clothes, they're 'out'. They no longer get to respond, get points and they're totally naked by now but should stay in the circle.

 

The first player to get three points is the winner (takes longer than you might think, especially the larger the group is). The winner then gets to pick from ALL responses shared in the entire game, which one they liked best and they then get to experience that with the one who shared it. Doesn't matter if it was shared in response to one of the winner's own kinks or not.

 

So that's it! Try it out and give feedback? Share ideas for how to make the game more fun, run more smoothly? We've had fun with it so far I think, but I'd love to hear how it works for you and your friends! And don't blame me if you all just end up in a big sloppy orgy by the end of it all though!

 

[Baishun]

Yay! I'm glad you finally put this up here!

 

Such a fun game, and such a great way to get to know people here. I've played it maybe five or six times now, and every time I have a blast and end up with a sore face from laughing so hard, or making this face:

 

 

Like Truth or Dare, you don't know what someone will come up with and a bad dare can really derail the game. But in Kinks with Friends, it's no big deal, you just pick your favorite one and move on, and no one really feels rejected since there's only one answer picked each time. Just the person who's answer gets picked ends up feeling really special, and positive reinforcement rawks!

 

And that line about how it usually ends up... Well, this is the face I have by then:

 

 

I'd love to see what other people's experiences are having played it, and what sorts of 'house rules' they've come up with too! Share peoples!

[Athene]

You know I'm in!

[NinaRP]

Does sound like a lot of fun i think

[Richardx]

I would so love to try this one out.  

[Tiptoe]

I hope we get to play soon then! I've really enjoyed the game so much so far. It feels like less pressure than Truth or Dare or some other games somehow. Like you never really quite so much on the spot when it is your turn because everyone else is going to have one too and a hastily made dare or some such doesn't derail the game or whatever. So it feels more relaxed somehow. Also it's just a fun way to share little glimpses of yourself in a casual, easy going, light hearted way.

 

If anyone else tries it out with a group and comes up with ideas of how to improve it, I hope you'll share them here or mail me or something! I'd love to hear about your experience and what worked or what didn't for you. Just curious.

[Brenda]

Apparently yesterday was national orgasm day, why was I not told?

[Emily Price]

oh this sounds super cool!

[Tiptoe]

I've been having such a good time with this game so far! We played again last night with a group in one of the back booths of the NC that varied between six and seven over a couple of hours and I thought it went pretty great. Lots of laughter and silliness and sexiness. Just wanted to throw out some various thoughts about it while I'm thinking them though.

 

I would say, personally, that the real goal of the game is just to goof off with friends and learn a few new things about them in the process, not to 'win', and maybe get a little (or a lot) aroused along the way and see where that goes too. While there is a prize for 'winning', I haven't come close to doing so myself yet but I've definitely won by losing big time every time, hahaha. Uhmm, what else are the naked people that can't play anymore supposed to?

 

Hehe, also...a logistical thought: I think we suggested above about trying to keep response times to about two minutes. I would say to be really loose about that and not try and enforce it really. If someone takes a little longer to respond, I personally think that's okay. It's all about just relaxing and having some fun and not everyone can respond as fast as others. Putting a timer on responses might just make things feel stressful and too much like an actual competition so best just go easy going about it in my opinion.

[Leathium]

 

 

 

I was click on the "x" in this photo thinking it`s some Ad photo... >.<

[Calliope]

I just played this last night and it was fun!  We didn't get time to do a full game, so no rewards at the end...but I think it's just a fun icebreaker and way for people to have kinky conversations together, learning a bit more about what the others in the game like and don't like.

[Nymphpott]

Thanks for game last night Tiptoe.

 

Was a fun imaginative evening with awesome people. I had a blast. I loved reading all the kinky stuff people wrote as responses to such a wide array of subjects.  

 

I already got some kinks picked for my turn next round ! 

[Tiptoe]

Wheeeee! Yay! I had such a wonderful time playing with you too sweet Nymph! Great group last night, we need to do it again soon!

[TheCriticalMrHits]

wow this game sounds like it would be a lot of fun indeed! I already have one of the two requirements in the title! If I could only make a friend or two, I'd be in business. 

[BlackWolf]

Should we added someone or knowing a schedule in particular ? :3

[Tiptoe]

Well, can always just form a group and try it out, but you can add me and I'll look for you when we're starting a game up too.

[BlackWolf]

Sure  

How to proceed and add people I'm like a little newbie here ahah. 

 

Thank you to taking care of me 

[Tiptoe]

Welcome to the fun here then! I can't recall if you can search for people ingame by their name or not actually. Might just need to arrange a time to meet or keep an eye out for people you want to befriend while you're having fun around 3dx in the clubs and such.

[Nymphpott]

Was close game last night. Down to the wire! Almost Everyone was in their birthday suits. Some pretty crazy kinks this time around. Ones that made me giggle and ones that made me grin. Competition was fierce and smexy,  Pressure was on and so were my panty.

 

 

Thanks for another fun game of Kinks with friends Tiptoe.

[Tiptoe]

Wheeeee! Such good times. We had a big group too, that was fun. Long game and Nymph won again, hahaha. Always looking forward to next time to hang out with you and your sweetheart!

[ChiK73]

I do like this, it sounds like a lot of fun, and craziness. I've played Truth or Dare so many times here, and it always gets derailed within the first 3 turns, this seems to have a continuity to keep it flowing, and not get off track. I will definitely need to get in one of the games some night. Excellent idea, Tiptoe!!!!

[Tiptoe]

Would love that karla! We'll have to friend up some time so we can find each other when we have a game next time. It's been a lot of fun lately.

[Rori]

sounds very interesting and fun,  and  from the responses may ummmmm errrrr  get better

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[SarahF]

This sounds like a really fun thing to try! I know it was a long time ago since it was talked about but I'm new so I was wondering if anyone still plays it now?