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ZheravnaFr

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For you, is it possible to have both a virtual life with your real one ?....


I can prove you that this is possible under few conditions :


1- Not to be a fake,


2- Not to give your skype or address to people unknown.


3- Not to mix relationship beetween virtual and real life.


Results : a beautiful gift from important peoples for you and your heart, staying here and in real life.


 


Thank you Eomer for this beautiful gift : kisses from Eobear !


 



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If your thoughts are all day long about someone you met online, rules 3 is fucked up. And then if you have a partner irl, rules 1 is fucked up as well. This is just my opinion :)

Playing with Honesty snd NO FAKE is the only way to have fun,cause if your not,you may hurt lot of fragile minded peoples honey. :)

Love ya ;) xxx

Briana

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For you, is it possible to have both a virtual life with your real one ?....

I can prove you that this is possible under few conditions :

1- Not to be a fake,

2- Not to give your skype or address to people unknown.

3- Not to mix relationship beetween virtual and real life.

Results : a beautiful gift from important peoples for you and your heart, staying here and in real life.

 

Thank you Eomer for this beautiful gift : kisses from Eobear !

 

"Not to be a fake" Ahahahahahahahahahahahaahahahahaha ................... so cute :)

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Err... Ok... 

 

This is a world built on being disconnected from each other. We live through the eyes of our avatars. Our virtual projections of our personalities. So the idea of not being fake? Impossible. We are all fakes. Every single person playing in this world. Some people put more of themselves into their online personalities for certain, mostly those who are better writers, but you honestly think you don't filter yourself? 

 

What we are seeing is the virtual projection of how people want to be seen. This is a world full of presented images and presented personalities. You are who you want to be, not who you are. The person you are? Is sitting at a computer typing and driving a projection. 

 

You want real? It takes more than telling another virtual projection what your true age, hobbies, personal details, gender, location etc are. You need to be sitting next to that person sitting eye to eye. You need to smell that person, see their body language. Hear the tremble in a voice or the twitch of an eye. The light touches of her flirting. The stiff way he gallantly offers to push your chair in.

 

The only way you can be is online.... Until you boldly choose to do more than hide behind that projection and let yourself be seen unfiltered.

 

 

Do I want to meet people in real life? Fuck no. You all scare the shit out of me because you'll see the fragile person hiding behind the projection and I'll have no screen to hide behind. 

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I would like to kindly offer a different mindset on some aspects, sometimes it is people who are thousands of miles away or virtual who are closer to you than those in your everday's surroundings, whether one takes the courage to to bridge between virtual and real or simply just opens up to others is a decision to be made for everyone themselves. Very few might be able to project an image of themselves that does not have at least a slight touch of one's personality in it. Boldly taking the virtual experience to the real world can be filled with hurt and sadness but also with deliriously happiness and joy, that is the risk life bears for us, I have personally seen relationships born out of the virtual world which I found very applaudable.

 

For many of us a place like this is first an adventure, a diversion from the stress of the real world but there aren't few who would not cherish the connections blossoming from it, the bonds forged and the happiness shared with a special someone.

 

As for the fake part, sometimes it is the assurance of safety behind those exact screens that allows ourselves to be what or whom we truly are, we do not necessarily only wear masks on here but moreoever in our daily life.

 

Personally I do believe that words combined with actions can add for a very riveting experience, perhaps that is the hopeless romantic speaking but I could very well even fall in love with letters, words that entice so wonderful feelings we seldomly get to truly cherish.

 

 

But I digressed completely here, it's a very caring gesture gesture from Eomer, I also happened to exchange small pleasentries of affection or simply to draw a smile upon the faces of those very dear to me. If both parties are comfortable with such acts of even unreasonable kindness, I don't see any reason against it.

 

Nicely done Frenchy :P

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I would like to kindly offer a different mindset on some aspects, sometimes it is people who are thousands of miles away or virtual who are closer to you than those in your everday's surroundings, whether one takes the courage to to bridge between virtual and real or simply just opens up to others is a decision to be made for everyone themselves. Very few might be able to project an image of themselves that does not have at least a slight touch of one's personality in it. Boldly taking the virtual experience to the real world can be filled with hurt and sadness but also with deliriously happiness and joy, that is the risk life bears for us, I have personally seen relationships born out of the virtual world which I found very applaudable.

 

For many of us a place like this is first an adventure, a diversion from the stress of the real world but there aren't few who would not cherish the connections blossoming from it, the bonds forged and the happiness shared with a special someone.

 

As for the fake part, sometimes it is the assurance of safety behind those exact screens that allows ourselves to be what or whom we truly are, we do not necessarily only wear masks on here but moreoever in our daily life.

 

Personally I do believe that words combined with actions can add for a very riveting experience, perhaps that is the hopeless romantic speaking but I could very well even fall in love with letters, words that entice so wonderful feelings we seldomly get to truly cherish.

 

 

But I digressed completely here, it's a very caring gesture gesture from Eomer, I also happened to exchange small pleasentries of affection or simply to draw a smile upon the faces of those very dear to me. If both parties are comfortable with such acts of even unreasonable kindness, I don't see any reason against it.

 

Nicely done Frenchy :P

I Agree whit what you said Cheyenne, But it deepens on the person like ZheravnaFr said, I was with someone here for Months gave my info to this person and in the end it turned into a nightmare herassing , on other hand I have met Other who have met online met in real life and are now Married and enjoying life, it's just like anywhere else I say here or real truth can be truth and lies can be like No matter it still cuts deep and leaves a scar you can never remove, I met someone long ago and found everything he said was a lie and I looked at this Man daily on Yahoo, I want to say if you have found thing Congrats to you ZheraynaFr cause I find it Very hard to do,For me that is

 
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