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I was thinking , it wpuld be a good idea here were single members can go and comment and see who is available and interested in maybe meeting and maybe getting to know each other.I find it a pain in the ass to try and chat with women I dont know, or have met and some either not responding to a polite hello , or even rude response, not even giving a chance too chat..or they are all ready with someone else, or wtvr.It would be awsome too go to a community page were there are other singles were you can say heys, send them a message and perhaps meet up, much easier then going around randomly and saying hello too every girl that maybe single only too possibly get ignored..I have been here awhile, have met many peeps and have a good set of friends..I will say thought sometimes, I dont want too sound like downer, it can get lonely sometimes and make one feel like the odd man out.I think it would help some who dont get on as much as I use to, to go to the singles forum page and maybe meet one I may connect with..I believe one can sometimes feel alone here, I alot of times feel awsome but other times, especially when so many are with their couples or sweethearts one really can feel like a lonesome wolve wondering around in a vast empty forest. I KNOW this is a game, and I have no problem in real life for dating, nor am I here to fall in to love..it would just be amazing . I feel at times, especially recently since alot of my friends have someone here they either have hooked up with or together with someone, or have another significant someone there close too, everyone has a want or need to have another in this game too share with, and get close with..I find it is much harder if you are a male then female, there are so many females that have other females, to be close with as well as men.I have learned on here if ypur a decent man, it can be so hard to find a decent lady, does not have too be a extremely serious close relation or completely exclusive , or it can be , depends on the extent of the want and needs of the two who have met and what they decide apon.But having a community forum spot for only singles would just help some peeps weed out the headgamers , the ones that are just wanting too play without respect for others thought emotions and feelings..the forum post would be for those who want another too share the game with. I believe everyone wants and deserves a partner in crime, one thats your number one, and one you can trust and share your deepest thoughts with..I have had others tell me they sometimes feel the same way....SO on that note I would love too hear your comments and thoughts on this subject ..thanks for your interest in reading this post.....ROBO..

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1.  Most players dont use the forum. Hence, most singles wont show up.          :huh:

 

2.  Im guessing most that use the forum are "social lions " either in a serious relationship  or , like me , have a serious friendlist that leave little desire or time for " singles dating ".

 

3. Creating a regular " open room "  for this purpose would probably have a better effect.

     This would ofc come with its own problems.

 

P.S          A " restaurant location " would have been perfect.  To bad we dont have one....      :mellow:

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Overall it's a good idea cause sometimes it's really a problem to find at least someone to talk to. You never know if person is waiting for someone or just is not interested or... 

 

I couldn't say that it's much easier for female but yeah, at least we get PMed first when I imagine that men seldom get a random hi from someone. We, girls, should unite and work on it ^_^

 

@Tipsy, I like your idea with User Room. It's easy to create and you could call it to point out that it's for singles looking for someone. I could imagine that when you jump from location to another location bored to death, such room would be a nice place to visit.

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these things usually appear if there is a real need. for example, if the entire forum regularly appeared topics about search meet for lonely hearts and some good Samaritan would suggest to combine them all into one section.

why developers which are so busy while creating and catching bugs, must spend some efforts to create special sections on the forum, the filling of which will depend on users, and is not known in advance whether they will be in demand.

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Overall it's a good idea cause sometimes it's really a problem to find at least someone to talk to. You never know if person is waiting for someone or just is not interested or... 

 

I couldn't say that it's much easier for female but yeah, at least we get PMed first when I imagine that men seldom get a random hi from someone. We, girls, should unite and work on it ^_^

 

@Tipsy, I like your idea with User Room. It's easy to create and you could call it to point out that it's for singles looking for someone. I could imagine that when you jump from location to another location bored to death, such room would be a nice place to visit.

I totally agree Amber it is tough , spend allmost half ones time either bumping into couples or peeps with another or waiting for another, think they should have both, one on forum and one room , or a new area environment were ot is were singles meet and greet, no sex room, and no off the wall stuff just a place were one can meet with others that want too meet others that are not attached. ))
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1.  Most players dont use the forum. Hence, most singles wont show up.          :huh:

 

2.  Im guessing most that use the forum are "social lions " either in a serious relationship  or , like me , have a serious friendlist that leave little desire or time for " singles dating ".

 

3. Creating a regular " open room "  for this purpose would probably have a better effect.

     This would ofc come with its own problems.

 

P.S          A " restaurant location " would have been perfect.  To bad we dont have one....      :mellow:

tipsy for president :o

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robo

This is not just a sex game. For sex, sex, sex ... This is a virtual world + some sex options :)))

Couple in love in the game, as in real life, do not want anyone but themselves. And, of course, do not want them or a third of them. They are not up to you. I understand that this is very sad. But it's true.

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Yea I know that, but I am not understanding your point, and I am agreeing with you, but I am talking about those that are not with another or yet in love with someone, or have someone that one is more then just a sex partner with, Im saying it is hard or would be easier to meet others in the same situation, one single person to another, instead of aimlessly wandering around talking too, or saying hey too every girl ypu think is single or not in a relationship, a place were one can go too at least mingle with other singles , and go from there..I am not talking about excluding non singles, however most non singles most likely wont really feel a need to go to this meeting place or forum spot..So I hope this clarifies more for you....Because how I read your post is that your thinking basically , that you are one of those in a relationship, so you have no idea what I am trying too say, your relations status is perfect in game..and that the single person can go F__k!! Themselves..

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Nothing prevents open to a party (in your game home) for singles and meet...

Open your room, call it "Singles dating" ... send invites to all, and meet with singles girls :)

Yes vlad, I get your idea, but however I think  everyone will go, and it would quickly just turn into another room, like all the others and one will have all types in there, plus , your non single friends , one is not going to not let them go their, so it has to be a designated spot or environment, I would love an actual maybe café, like tipsy mentioned, or maybe an environment, just a meeting lounge for singles only too meet other singles, from there they  can venture anywhere they choose, but at least they have a meeting place first, they can bank on the others in the room, that are in the same situation as them. I mean you go too a sex room basically knowing most are their for sex, then why not an actual singles meet  and great centre, were one goes when single, and knows he or she is safe chatting with others that are more open, and responsive to them, because they have the same needs, wants and are in the same situation . Trust me, it can get pretty tiring, trying to find someone that is free,... single and free,... or their free but not single,... or their free not single but waiting for their special someone to come on.... listen , I am not trying to sound desperate, but it can be painful, and somewhat frustrating, to Venture around, and either all you see is couples, or all one meets is girls that are taken, or IF  your friendly and try more then two words, they either act disinterested, poof, or even in extreme cases, tell you to f**k off..I personally am not in a hurry to find someone, but I am sure one ill come along, and if not I guess oh well, but one sometimes can feel like maybe their just not for anyone, who knows, but one awesome thing about, if their was such a place like the meet and great singles club, it would make finding , ones partner a lot easier, a lot smoother, a lot less....dangerous...lol..no big kicks to the chops by the wrong women, but only women as well as men, that actually want to spend and get to know one another......

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Paragraphs robo, paragraphs!

wow, damn, omg, you right, ....who are you my English teacher, Jokes Snow, yes their is the wee run on sentence in there, but I wrote this on a night shift from my smart phone, and was too lazy to fix some of the sentence structure...lol.. :P

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